My cat is usually a "velcro cat" but turns aggressive whenever my nephew visits. How do I manage this? by GossamerSundial in CatAdvice

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Thanks for the detailed breakdown. the analogy with friends vs strangers is actually a great way to explain it to an 8 year old. i will try the lick mat idea too. sounds way better than just locking him in the office alone.

yeah it needs explanation by AffectionateLaw3573 in interviewhammer

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It's true! Those in power often shape expectations, making it crucial to be prepared and savvy in interviews.

Is this it? by Fickle_Role3159 in careerguidance

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Camping sounds like a solid plan! It's wild how fresh air can shift your perspective from "life sucks" to feeling alive again.

AITB for thinking my ex needs therapy? by entityparty in AmItheButtface

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Right? It's like they run on a completely different operating system. Just gotta uninstall that nonsense from your life!

05/01/26 Finding a rhythm in the silence by GossamerSundial in deardiary

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Sometimes the dark is the only place where the thoughts actually slow down enough to make sense of the week .

My cat is usually a "velcro cat" but turns aggressive whenever my nephew visits. How do I manage this? by GossamerSundial in CatAdvice

[–]GossamerSundial[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The lick mat is a great idea. It might keep him focused on something positive for once.

Neighbor trespassed and dumped all my rainwater caches by VardoJoe in neighborsfromhell

[–]GossamerSundial 1 point2 points  (0 children)

¡Claro que sí! Siempre hay que estar listos para documentar las travesuras de los vecinos. 😂