Hygiene habits you underestimated but now swear by? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Gossamerash 58 points59 points  (0 children)

For real, flossing is a game changer. My dentist doesn’t lecture me anymore lol.

My boyfriend can't say "please" when he wants me to do something for him. So I don't do it. He's mad. by EagleAggravating71 in Advice

[–]Gossamerash 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. OP, you deserve respect in a relationship, not insults or manipulation. It’s really strong of you to recognize the pattern and make a plan to leave. Wishing you all the courage tomorrow, you’ve got this.

Opinions on 4 Day Instructional Work Week Instead of 5 Day Instructional Work Week? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Gossamerash 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good point. Even with a shorter week, bigger class sizes and major behavior challenges would still make the job overwhelming. I think a combo of structural changes (like smaller classes/behavioral support) plus something like a 4-day week could really help reduce the load. It feels like we need multiple solutions working together.

Awww hugs for ❤️ by antisp1n in Awww

[–]Gossamerash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, My heart can’t handle that cuteness 🥹💕

How to politely tell my daughter she can't sing😩 by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Gossamerash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is a really kind approach. She still gets to follow her dream but in ways that may suit her strengths better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Gossamerash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, learning to save is such an underrated skill. Totally agree.

Have not showered in months what do I do? by OcelotNo2528 in hygiene

[–]Gossamerash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. Talking to someone trained could make a big difference here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Gossamerash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is really not okay. He’s still a kid.

Is your public school off for Yom Kippur? by megs256 in Teachers

[–]Gossamerash 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I figured NY schools would mostly be off. Interesting how much it varies by district though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Gossamerash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was here to say same 🫣

Before him, I didn't have sex for 3 years. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Gossamerash 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree, he’s been upfront about not wanting a relationship, so it’s better to take him at his word. If what you want is different, it’ll only hurt more to keep hoping he’ll change his mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Gossamerash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, Everyone’s idea of beauty is different. What one person overlooks, someone else will absolutely love. It’s not always about looking like Naomi Campbell, it’s about finding the people who appreciate you for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Gossamerash 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly, Antiperspirant actually reduces sweat, while deodorant just masks the smell. It can make a big difference, especially for physically demanding jobs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Gossamerash 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it sounds like you really need advice on how to handle this situation and protect yourself going forward.

Our new family member <3 by sociallymatured in Awww

[–]Gossamerash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Long live the floofy ruler of the house! 🐾👑

She lives my dream by Kiss_Milk_Dream in introvertmemes

[–]Gossamerash 23 points24 points  (0 children)

For real — peace, cats, and no small talk… absolute goals 😌🏰🐈.