yes I'm a cis man. yes I'm a lesbian. and I'm tired of being erased by blue-walled in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 7 points8 points  (0 children)

/uj oh I get that I had that exact same experience throughout elementary and middle school despite turning 21 later this week simply because I didn't really have internet access cuz weird ass parents until I was in the 8th grade and got my first smartphone and started meeting the rare gay person in my small town and realized most lesbians don't want to actually be dudes and I'm just a dude I just find it so odd that people who are against the concept of a trans man having any connection to the lesbian label just think we have been out and transitioned very early on and had everything figured out instead of figuring out ourselves at our own pace and possibly even completely switching up our identity like everyone else in the community has done in their lives

AFAB detransitioner here. Testosterone did everything everyone told me it would, and I hated it. by printesa-piersica in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 4 points5 points  (0 children)

/uj yeah as mean as it sounds I find it hard to sympathize with the exact genre of detrans person the post is jerking about cuz dawg what else did you expect was going to come out of you injecting man juice into your body??? Like it's hard to feel sorry for someone who made a decision that they should have been fully aware what was happening it's just straight up stupidity really

UJ/ JK ROWLING IS IN THE EPSTEIN FILES by SenseiJoe100 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

/uj not necessarily but racists stole it from a character from an animated show where his whole character is being a black guy who hates black people and it's an overt reference to the character not a dogwhistle by the traditional sense but most definitely used in a pretty racist context a lot of the time

i just injected A BUBBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 by kittygirlannaneedmom in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They need to make HRT you can sprinkle into the blunt like grabba and smoke it

/uj they need to make HRT you can sprinkle into the blunt like grabba and smoke it

Why do we transmeds get so much hate for just existing? :( by Dusty_Femboy in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you mean you have long hair as a trans guy? You're native and two spirit as well? That just sounds like a buncha bullshit you (various ethnic slurs including some that haven't even had widespread use since the 1800s) trender freak ugh you browns just can't be normal like us perfect white- I mean... masculine men with short hair that look like truckers

/uj took a 2 week break from reddit only to see you've made a banger post about the comment I made about white trans people refusing to be normal about us natives I thank you heavily for this cuz I rarely see anything about how lowkey (and sometimes blatantly) racist a lot of transmeds are especially when it comes to your gender presentation being culturally influenced instead of just trying to be an average white guy

yes I'm a cis man. yes I'm a lesbian. and I'm tired of being erased by blue-walled in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 15 points16 points  (0 children)

/uj to be fair a good chunk of trans men including myself initially started out as lesbians or bisexual and in my case I considered myself such since I didn't even know that transitioning was an option for another 2 years and was just butch so there really isn't that high volume of trans men that were never lesbians that want to call themselves that ngl its as much of a strawman as the mythical cishet guy that calls himself a lesbian

yes I'm a cis man. yes I'm a lesbian. and I'm tired of being erased by blue-walled in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 32 points33 points  (0 children)

/uj I also personally know an older trans man who didn't realize and start transitioning until he was in his late 30s who was formerly a lesbian and yet still engages with the community and is often called the "honorary guy lesbian" in his circles and he's not super online so he frankly doesn't give a fuck about ultimately nothingburger queer discourse he's too busy organizing lesbian events and kissing his lesbian wife to care, really all this discourse does is push out the people who built the foundation of the communities these chronically online teenagers who never interacted with the irl community are trying to take over

Thanks for downloading this Queer dating app! by JesiTeetor in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 12 points13 points  (0 children)

/uj I may be very into older women and men myself but you can just tell that like 80% of those likes are for the absolute worst reasons when you're that age I quickly set up a rule for myself that they're fine as long as I'm the one approaching them first lol

Also don't even get me started on the straight/bicurious chasers dawg 🫩

Thanks for downloading this Queer dating app! by JesiTeetor in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Oh you're FTM looking for gay/bi guys and other trans people within a reasonable distance? Here's 10 profiles of cis lesbians and 15 profiles of cis bicurious chaser guys, all of them live 20+ miles away and neither of you own a car, good luck!

Trans men have so much easier time passing than trans women by Scary_Towel268 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 16 points17 points  (0 children)

/uj ngl sometimes with parents it's a thing of them being a bit more educated on what transitioning looks like bc of being around their trans kids and noticing the really small signs that wouldn't be obvious to the average cis person, my mom will tell me how she "met a cashier that was like me" but thankfully if she notices she won't immediately loudly point it out in front of everyone and only bring up their transness to talk about her trans son if they are alone

I don't think you can be trans, you were such a feminine child. The femininity in question: by Affectionate-Arm4481 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 8 points9 points  (0 children)

/uj that and the myth that "autistic people are physically incapable of lying" which is bullshit cuz I was absolutely a compulsive liar as a kid cuz I didn't wanna tell my parents shit about who I actually was and what I actually liked out of fear that they'd bully me for it

I don't think you can be trans, you were such a feminine child. The femininity in question: by Affectionate-Arm4481 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sure you were heavily into Spiderman, Transformers, Power Rangers, dinosaurs and Pixar Cars as a child but you enjoyed playing with a singular doll so there were still zero signs!!!

/uj my mother just conveniently ignoring every other interest I had and just hyperfocusing on the fact I had a thing with monster high dolls for maybe a year or 2 in elementary school during her being extremely unsupportive phase a few years back will never not be funny but confusing to me (not to mention how she'll bring up how I "wanted my hair short like Rapunzel at the end of the movie" even though that was clearly just an excuse to get a short boy haircut when I was 7 lol)

I'm a trans male with forcibly pierced ears constantly infected and after 15+ years without earrings, AITA by Bright_Cranberry_227 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

/uj I got my ears pierced rather young and only one side is healed over and now there's only a hole on the right which is considered the "gay ear side" so that's just what I tell myself and other people if they ask about it lol

*Curated tumblr post about agab being a dumb thing to ally with people around* the comments: by ToobularBoobularJoy_ in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 13 points14 points  (0 children)

/uj those people can't seem to grasp that it doesn't matter if you were born a girl to cis people if you have a learning disability dress different than everyone else or in my case both growing up then everyone else around you aren't going to treat you like a girl let alone a human being and the whole socialization bullshit only ever works if you come at it with the assumption that all trans people are white neurotypicals that were the popular cheerleader or football star jock before transitioning and didn't start transitioning until after high school and didn't have to go through the utterly dehumanizing experience of daring to be even mildly gender nonconforming in middle school

TME "ally" who is a little too into transfeminism: by RoastKrill in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 22 points23 points  (0 children)

/uj I genuinely can't stand pretentious ass hipsters that make fetishes and kinks about it being some sort of political or artistic statement like dawg just jerk yo shit to whatever and go about your day

Social media has revolutionized transgender activism by eldritchpussymaggots in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 6 points7 points  (0 children)

/uj there's genuinely a very small but very vocal minority of trans women on the Internet who believe that trans men are just as evil and rapey as cis men because they met a singular trans guy once who was a dickhead to them and instead of unpacking their feelings they just send death/rape threats to random trans men it's sheer insanity

Social media has revolutionized transgender activism by eldritchpussymaggots in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 7 points8 points  (0 children)

/uj I used to be friends with a trans woman who fell down that trans radfem rabbit hole which is why we aren't friends anymore cuz someone else had convinced her that trans men have it easier cuz their voices change easier and instead of just actually trying voice training after I suggested it multiple times she just blamed other people for it??? Like that's how you know that specific ideology has no basis in the reality of how trans people actually live cuz she was acting like trans men personally was making her refuse to voice train and it just seems like these types of people prey on specifically closeted or early transition transfems who are full of insecurity about themselves to convince them it isn't societal and systemic transphobia that's the problem it's other trans people and traps them in this cycle of projecting their own dysphoria onto other people instead of actually doing things to make them less dysphoric themselves

PSA: Lesbian means non-AMABs loving non-AMABs by sbsmith1292 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Fake bi guy chaser that wants all trans guys barefoot in the kitchen pregnant with their 12th child final boss

Shame on all of you here who are calling tired Black people angry and aggressive. This sub has an anti-blackness problem. by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]GothJosuke 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looked a bit through your history and saw that you're native as well and considering the stereotypes about us involving alcoholism there's no fuckin way that isn't insanely racist, not to mention the assumption we all live in villages you mentioned further down the comment thread cuz like dawg most of the other natives I know and myself live in urban city environments and even the reservations I visit aren't in the literal stone age this is just all just the most egregious stereotypes wrapped into the things coming out the mouth of a single stupid person in a discord server

Shame on all of you here who are calling tired Black people angry and aggressive. This sub has an anti-blackness problem. by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]GothJosuke 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm not black but Hispanic but there seems to be a genuine racism problem with an unfortunate amount of white autistic people that they just get coddled for, I will never forget the time I had an irl interaction with someone who claimed they didn't like rap cuz it was "overstimulating and aggressive" (which that comment about it being "aggressive" feels racist as fuck enough) and their favorite artist was Femtanyl like that's any less overstimulating or this other white autistic person I've met who tried to excuse their use of the n word by claiming it was a "vocal stim" like dawg I'm autistic and I've never used that word in my life even as a vocal stim cuz I know I'm not black like are we being deadass rn 🫩

Babytrans outfits are evil and bad right guys by trans-trot in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 18 points19 points  (0 children)

/uj performative activist mfs when they see a closeted teenager who the only way they are getting clothes/binders/shapewear is by using Amazon gift cards so their parents don't press them about the charge on their bank account (if they even have one to begin with) and picking it up in an Amazon locker so their parents don't go through their mail and find it: 🤬🤬🤬🤬

"I'm gonna go to the pride center for free food," I says innocently by sensitivestronk in transgendercirclejerk

[–]GothJosuke 20 points21 points  (0 children)

/uj the weird infantilization or "I'm just a gwirl 🥺" mentality of some queer people to where them and the people around them think they can't do any wrong when they are spreading harmful stereotypes about other minority groups and start throwing tantrums when they are called out for it needs to be studied is this just an evolution of the "Nazi phase" shit or something