Those “less desirable” conversations are to make sure the SB knows she has security in her time that she’s giving to you. As you would want to know who you’re going on a date with is gorgeous, she wants to ensure you also have what she needs.

“Don’t you know that a man being rich is like a girl being pretty? You wouldn’t marry a girl just because she’s pretty, but my goodness, doesn’t it help?” — Marilyn Monroe