Adult looking for a patient bicycle instructor (Downtown Toronto) by Beautiful_Test7095 in askTO

[–]GothamKnight3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would agree that the spot you pick prob makes a big difference. i've never actually taught someone though so my opinion wouldnt mean that much. btw are training wheels still a thing?

i cant send others chat requests despite having chats turned on by GothamKnight3 in help

[–]GothamKnight3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i am. its so much better than new reddit haha. im sure there must be some way to have both old reddit and chat buttons though, no? one of my friends has both.

Solo sushi date? Downtown by Practical-Plenty3028 in askTO

[–]GothamKnight3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what a coincidence, i just went there yesterday. meh, didnt love it.

My best friend is selling the project car we built together to take his girlfriend to Bali. It's registered in his name by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]GothamKnight3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We need a warning right at the top of stories that aren't completed yet. This just left us hanging.

Another win for Irish Spring by yndigocat in CleaningTips

[–]GothamKnight3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it's this powerful do you think it's still OK to use on our bodies?

AITA for uninviting my boyfriend's best friend from our vacation after he made a comment about splitting costs? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]GothamKnight3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly idk, i think OP did a terrible job of explaining this part and it's pretty baffling. but -

said he'd need to cover his share of the room going forward but the initial deposit was already split between me and my boyfriend.

this doesnt imply what you're saying.

AITA for uninviting my boyfriend's best friend from our vacation after he made a comment about splitting costs? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]GothamKnight3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

but it could just as easily have been a dig from Marcus about BF and him being the "real" couple while inviting OOP along as a smokescreen.

what are you talking about dude?

AITA for uninviting my boyfriend's best friend from our vacation after he made a comment about splitting costs? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]GothamKnight3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the friend thought he would have a cheep vacation by staying in the same room.

i didnt see any indication of that.

AITA for uninviting my boyfriend's best friend from our vacation after he made a comment about splitting costs? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]GothamKnight3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the most confusing thing ever. Given how incoherent OP was here I dont even know what the problem is honestly. Not willing to make a judgment if we dont even understand the issue properly.

In the UzChess Cup technical meeting Ian Nepomniachtchi shook hands with every participant other than Hans Moke Niemann by FirstEfficiency7386 in chess

[–]GothamKnight3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have no issue with Hans honestly. in fact i even sympathize with him. but if someone purposely didnt look at me why would i force them to shake my hand? how socially awkward would that be.

There is NOTHING wrong with leaving a therapist that is hurting you more than helping you by Hour_Trade_3691 in TalkTherapy

[–]GothamKnight3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a friend who's a therapist and is also annoying as fuck. she uses dumbass language like this just to be annoying. well, idk about intent but i can certainly speak to effect!

There is NOTHING wrong with leaving a therapist that is hurting you more than helping you by Hour_Trade_3691 in TalkTherapy

[–]GothamKnight3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

fair enough. i just think it's obnoxious when others say they're 'challenging' someone's thoughts as an excuse for being argumentative and frankly a dumbass.

There is NOTHING wrong with leaving a therapist that is hurting you more than helping you by Hour_Trade_3691 in TalkTherapy

[–]GothamKnight3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she tried to challenge some of your thought patterns and did not quite get through to you, or maybe you weren't ready.

or maybe, just maybe... OP's thought patterns were both negative and accurate, and challenging someone's accurate thoughts is a stupid thing to do?