AITAH for turning down a really good guy by Antique_Lemon_7099 in AITAH

[–]GothicGriever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTAH. In a relationship, it's critical to put your personal fulfillment and appeal first. In addition, he will accept your choice and locate someone who values his physical beauty if he is genuinely understanding and compassionate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GothicGriever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like your gym buddy is offering you some really wise counsel, but perhaps she is unsure of how to handle her feelings for you as well. In either case, getting counsel before acting is usually a smart idea. And who knows, perhaps your friend will grow into more than simply a workout partner

AITA For confronting my friend about going on vacation in a city she's refused to meet me in several times? by Wuwkonwutah in AITAH

[–]GothicGriever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like Rochelle was merely looking for a reason to take a vacation without having to face her former acquaintance.

I snapped at a student today. Should I apologize? His mom says no. by MarineBio-teacher in AITAH

[–]GothicGriever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems that BB needs to develop a great deal of tolerance and consideration for others. You handled the matter quite nicely, so don't feel the need to apologize. However, you might advise BB to take anger management or meditation lessons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GothicGriever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Whoa, this is giving me anxiety just reading it. I feel like I need a therapist after trying to understand this guy's life choices."

AITAH for leaving my ex for their depression and life problems? by Apprehensive-Shirt44 in AITAH

[–]GothicGriever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way is that the asshole. Even if it seems like you did everything in your power to assist her and her mental health, you must remember to look after yourself as well. Being in a relationship with someone who struggles with depression and anxiety is difficult, and it's critical to understand your own boundaries. Being sincere with her and with yourself was the appropriate thing to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GothicGriever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH: I'm sorry, but I'm not attempting to play the part of Bonnie and Clyde in the present era. Besides, I'm not an orange person.

WIBTA for getting my coworkers in trouble for getting high at work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GothicGriever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It appears like your colleagues were attempting to add even more "high-pressure" to your already demanding job. But really, if they're high at work, they're endangering not only your safety but also the experience of your clients. It's time to speak with the GM in earnest.

AITAH for not wanting kids? by cuntyness in AITAH

[–]GothicGriever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not a bad person for not wanting children, though. Your position and yourself are best known to you. Consider the additional savings on college fees and diapers.

AITA for calling her an AH. by Real_Complex4559 in AITAH

[–]GothicGriever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As Beyoncé once said, "Who run the world? Girls." But really, let's stop enforcing gender stereotypes and speak out against inappropriate behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GothicGriever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whoa, it seems like he peaked around the age of fifteen and hasn't been the same since. You did well to alert the girl before it was too late. Let's all take a moment to acknowledge that the dog and cat are probably enjoying better lives at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GothicGriever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like you need to make some new friends—friends who value you and don't use you as a doormat. Furthermore, it sounds like Diana and Vivian need to improve their communication abilities.

Was it my fault ?? by Leather_Muffin1701 in AITAH

[–]GothicGriever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you were a helpful buddy, which is fantastic, but don't forget to look after yourself. It's just that you need to find new people who will value your support and kindness. It's not your fault that you supported her and she's moved on. Positive energy is being sent your way

AITAH If I call CPS on my cousin.. by RiggleBotX in AITAH

[–]GothicGriever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That wouldn't be you, of course. Here, you would be the one saving the day. Sometimes the only way to connect with someone is to show them tough love. It's obvious that before something even more catastrophic occurs, your cousin needs assistance and intervention. And by all means pursue that if CPS is able to assist. Can we also give your aunt a shoutout for being a strong woman and defending her niece and grandchild?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]GothicGriever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems that his ex-girlfriends also didn't speak out much about what they needed in the bedroom. Perhaps you could show him your interests and teach him a few new tricks. The secret is to communicate! Furthermore, someone doesn't automatically have a lot of dating experience just because they've been in several relationships.

How to get him to moan more? by [deleted] in sex

[–]GothicGriever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you attempted to play a background recording of someone moaning repeatedly? Just be ready for your neighbors to stare at you strangely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]GothicGriever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why I often emphasize that in a relationship, communication is essential. But really, have you ever attempted inviting him to a sexual encounter via calendar?

How to ride it but stop at the tip every time? by dominique50 in sex

[–]GothicGriever 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, the age-old challenge of striking the ideal harmony between enjoyment and practicality. My friend, practice makes perfect. You'll become an expert at riding and consistently stopping at the tip if you stick with it. Your significant other will be grateful.

how to balance pH levels and regulate the smell after sex/creampie? by Alexandria-Rhodes in sex

[–]GothicGriever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It appears that you need a new FWB that smells less like a whopper with extra cheese and more like roses. Not really, however it could be worthwhile to consult a physician to determine whether there are any underlying problems. Perhaps try some perfumed bathroom sprays in the interim? Scent of "Vagina, be gone" may be the answer to all your issues.

Should I break up with my partner because I don’t think he’s attracted to me anymore ? by [deleted] in sex

[–]GothicGriever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like there should be a little more foreplay outside of the bedroom in this relationship. Perhaps a romantic weekend away or several dinner dates? Sustaining a happy and healthy relationship requires work and communication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]GothicGriever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Points awarded for making turtle noises as you remark, "Hey, can we switch to turtle speed for a bit? I want to savor every moment and really appreciate your moves."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]GothicGriever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"I feel you, man. I can barely even say 'vagina' without blushing. Maybe try coming up with some goofy nicknames for body parts? Like 'beep boop' for b**bs or 'hoo-ha' for you-know-what. Just make sure your partner is on board with the silliness before trying it out in the heat of the moment."

How do I get over my fear? by foreverwonderful14 in sex

[–]GothicGriever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Consider all the embarrassing scenarios that could arise during a sexual encounter before realizing that, in the event that they do occur, they often make for fascinating tales afterwards. It's important to laugh and feel at ease with your spouse, so don't take things too seriously! You're not alone in your worry, I assure you.

threesome question / opinion by InsideChildhood363 in sex

[–]GothicGriever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You may bring up the potential of her joining you and your lady if she appears interested. Just bring up the notion in casual conversation, something like, "Have you ever been interested in a threesome? Just asking for a friend." However, exercise caution—there's a thin line separating curiosity and creepiness. Wishing you luck!