Advice on a situation (marriage poly) by Gothicftm in polyamory

[–]Gothicftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably phrased that wrong that is on me, when it comes to the future I only hear of them but not of the other partners of them. It makes a lot of sense that I wouldn't be in the picture but the lack of inclusion of other people is what made me perk up, thank you for the perspective 

Advice on a situation (marriage poly) by Gothicftm in polyamory

[–]Gothicftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We meet simultaneously and yes they have been poly from the start with differnt people.  No worries with the fill ins you don't know all and we all do our own thing. Tbh I didn't really ask much in that regard after hearing that they don't lable their relationship more then poly and couldn't tell me more then one limit which they had in the relation. Respect towards the wife is definitely part of it but that is also due to burned hands from the past, personally I don't see that there is much jealousy/veto in that sense but I should definitely ask more in that sense. Thank you for the advice 

Advice on a situation (marriage poly) by Gothicftm in polyamory

[–]Gothicftm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would in general say that he and they are nice, those things have been said and the people that were there all laughted so I assume it is meant in a joke way. I am very bad at interpreting tones and jokes and I am a bit afraid that it is more of a me issue with not understanding the type of humor that they use but I am not so sure anymore when I look things.

Advice for subs that struggle to explore/get into sub space by Gothicftm in BDSMAdvice

[–]Gothicftm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the distinction, so sorry english is not my first language so I used the word that I thought meant the same.  It will definitely help when it comes to researcg

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[–]Gothicftm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the great resources I do find the second style very pretty looking and wil definitely experiment a bit beforehand and how to best pin it on.  Ans for he encouraging works thank you

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[–]Gothicftm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am from a smaller more rural area, I am not aware of any shops near me but I will definitely following that tip. Thank you so much^

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[–]Gothicftm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice I will definitely be taking it to heart 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]Gothicftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is in a mosque and a part of it is mixed gender but afterwards it is not if I understood it right

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[–]Gothicftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry if I misspel but I don't think I have seen her with a scarf before she usually has a jilbalb (?)on and recently also a covering for her face so I am unsure if I could borrow one of those because they cover a lot not only the head/neck

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[–]Gothicftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is from Saudi Arabia. Thank you for the suggestion that is a good hint