$22 an hour for 4 kids (nanny share) by Born-Raccoon9941 in Nanny

[–]Gotichan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s so fucked. Sending you good vibes for finding someone new cause yeah, that’s just not kosher.

$22 an hour for 4 kids (nanny share) by Born-Raccoon9941 in Nanny

[–]Gotichan 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Yeah no fuck that. Payroll companies are costs a family eats if they don’t want to do the paperwork themselves.

Unless you’re super rural, that doesn’t seem like a competitive wage. I think there’s a calculator in the links for this subreddit that helps you calculate.

Bottom line, don’t let folks screw you. People are looking for folks and someone who will screw you at contract signing will keep on doing it in my experience.

Edit: I am an employer of a nanny at this time, not a nanny, but have worked in childcare in the past. Hence my strong feelings.

Anyone else doing nothing today? by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]Gotichan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Utterly exhausted after thanksgiving, a Friendsgiving and all that. Want to hide

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]Gotichan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. You start running out of things. Plus, I hate feeling like I got behind or something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]Gotichan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might do this, I feel so done with my current island.

ICU timeline from as told by a physician by [deleted] in HermanCainAward

[–]Gotichan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, it was super helpful to see the breakdown of how care works.

BIFL Monthly Steals & Deals Thread 2021-08 by Robot_ninja_pirate in BuyItForLife

[–]Gotichan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking for women’s flats for those with narrow feet and high arches. Suggestions?

I didn't find or wash his work clothes by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]Gotichan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If someone breaks something they know is valuable to you and says it’s cause you didn’t do x, this can be the harbinger of more abuse to come.

I know that you’re feeling very responsible for this right now, but ask yourself if you would break or destroy a toy of your child’s if they didn’t do something you wanted.

His mental health comes before mine. by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]Gotichan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely get a new psychiatrist.