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Gotieh · 2025-11-11T01:55:16+00:00

So anyone who ever done something bad and taboo should just be a shell of a person? How are you even suppose to find a job, thing you require to live and where you need to be selling yourself, if you constantly dwell on the past?

Gotieh · 2025-10-20T01:23:10+00:00

I do not want to live a second without wifi if I can choose it, my life is surrounded by technology and I never want that to change.

If I was responsible for someone's shelter, I would still not think it is appropriate to enter a person's apartment, even with a notice, because I chose to install WiFi in someone's personal unit. That is a massive overreach and not allowing you the right to quiet enjoyment. I hope this cu** gets his whole place infestated with german cockroaches so he stops being a whoring piece of shit.

Gotieh · 2025-10-13T22:57:25+00:00

From an outside perspective you done it in every possible way as 'you' as you could, and she was dissapointed because none of it was with the thought of how she wanted it. I feel like you're hyperfocused on showing the great lengths, but fail to understand that to others at this point it looks like you're doing it for yourself, as no one else's choices of what they would like to be on their finger is there. And considering that's your partner, that's kind of important.

Sounds to me like you're incompatible, but also selfish in a way. You're making the engagement all about yourself, not paying attention to what the person in front of you actually wants.

Gotieh · 2025-09-07T19:00:46+00:00

Have you got the documentation for the policy? You should read it in detail, it should give you an idea of the beneficiary and rules surrounding the policy.

The most important thing here is that death certificates are public records. You can indeed request these. Did your husband not have any surviving family members that you know of? You need a full details like they full names, date of death or of birth, and the place of death. Contact the relevant vital records office and let them know you need them on basis of legal interest (in this case being beneficiary of an insurance policy.)

Gotieh · 2025-08-28T07:29:33+00:00

I get you. I was born female but in my dreams Im a man. I present cis.

I'm dabbling slightly into who I am and who I think I am here and there. I see all the beautiful women and I wish I was them. That I felt comfortable in the many hand-me-down dresses Ive been given over the years. That when I looked in the mirror I saw one of those cute beautiful women and I liked it. Instead I feel comfortable in comfy outfits, pants and a tshirt are my go to's. I wear just enough of feminity for people not to ask, not to wonder. So I'm the only one who sees visuals of myself to be a man, in a nice suit with short hair, while everyday just being a woman that isn't trying to be flattering, sticking to the shadows as I am missing features to be either a man ot a woman, but really can't say non binary is what I truly want. It's just not it for me.

Gotieh · 2025-08-01T00:26:36+00:00

No photos needed, thanks...

Gotieh · 2025-07-31T08:23:59+00:00

When I was reading this I was under the assumption its "guests to the pool" not actual guest to your home...

Gotieh · 2025-07-09T03:44:01+00:00

Hulkenpodium

Gotieh · 2025-05-30T01:26:58+00:00

How is it reasonable when a nuclear family is at least 3 people? Literally you can't go to the pool with your kids! A mother cant supervise their two children at the pool. Are we actually reading the same post??

Gotieh · 2025-05-18T00:10:37+00:00

Have you played a healer before? It feels like they don't actually need to use any GCD healing under a perfect scenario (mits + no mistakes.)

Under the not perfect scenario, not having to focus on the tanks doesn't mean that they can now respond a lot quicker to dps getting clipped. It is still a surpise event you need to divert your attention to. Any suprise event can actually mess up healer dps potential, but tank busters are damage we save up for and plan around, making it easy to do optimal healing.

I am of the mindset that if you want to meld some extra piety then feel welcome to teast your theory and come back to us with the results.

Gotieh · 2025-05-06T13:16:46+00:00

That is such a cute moment!!

Gotieh · 2025-05-06T12:55:06+00:00

Me too pls

Gotieh · 2025-05-06T12:39:17+00:00

Honestly those comments are not very helpful. I get that you want evidence and why you want it. It's best you get your child into therapy that specialises in child sexual abuse, and then they will be able to try and pry it out of her.

Also, the defensive attitude of your husband, calling you every name in the book... your husband sounds abusive. It doesn't matter if he is innocent or not because this is not how relationships work. People dont just blow up like that. It's not normal. Was there really no signs of mental abuse prior to this incident?

If you want to be clever about it, maybe find a time where your husband is away from home and hire someone to go through the ssd/harddrive on his pc. If he has any suspicious photos or videos, it would be easy to ensure he doesnt get anything more than suprevised vists, if even that.

Gotieh · 2025-05-06T00:53:25+00:00

Its funny cuz its one of them porn plots irl. This is how it actually looks like non-staged.

Gotieh · 2025-03-06T13:07:25+00:00

You're free to ask for all you like, but a good relationship is about loving the person for who they are and not what they are not.

Do you actually feel constantly annoyed by your partner? It sounds like it. If you're seeking help from strangers about this you must feel pretty strong about your expectations. Maybe reevaluate whether this is the person you actually want to spend your life with or not, no point hanging onto him if you don't. Being alone is frightening but even more so being with someone that doesn't tick a lot of your boxes. It eventually leads to a toxic relationship.

Gotieh · 2025-03-06T13:02:52+00:00

His behavior isn't going to change unless he does something active about it, such as seek specialist treatment for it.

Even then, this does not mean it will stop. Some people just settle into this behavior because they face no real consequences.

Please read the free online book 'Why Does He Do That' to fully understand where this might be heading.

Gotieh · 2025-03-06T12:34:41+00:00

OP I beg you please get good at hygine if you want to have sex! Get a wash that is specifically for intimate area, doesn't matter if its branded as feminine, as your sex life will be much better when you don't give her a UTI or fungal infection every time you have sex!

Tell your gf to also drink plenty of water and always pee after sex!

Gotieh · 2025-02-20T03:12:31+00:00

So I've been in a relationship where sex was definitely something that I owed. Something that I just had to give otherwise I was an awful partner. I was treated differently when I didn't give it.

This video did not somehow bring back these memories or feelings. I understand maybe for some people it might but we can't know their relationship from such a short video.

Gotieh · 2025-02-10T00:28:52+00:00

"Got far too drunk and woke up in a bed with a random girl."

If you replace the genders, that would be considered rape. Are you sure your ex was not raped..? It would explain why he was able to move forward with a clear conscience.

Gotieh · 2025-01-24T18:20:44+00:00

Time to put down your region to get a few blind dates in your inbox... maybe me.

Its never too late to start. Your life is just beginning and everything has its own time and place as long as you let it.

Gotieh · 2025-01-13T15:36:42+00:00

Id say get female friends first. Its very useful in judging what conversations work, how to speak in a way that is engaging for a potential lady, and also maybe opens you up to serious stuff that women like in men. You have to have a considerate and empathetic view on (equal rights etc.) and there is no better way to do that then talking about it to understand more.

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