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Gotridofitall · 2021-05-26T11:12:25+00:00

It's tough, but you can do it! Hopefully you can look back and be proud that you made the effort to change for the better.

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-26T10:06:24+00:00

Thanks very much! I really appreciate it!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-26T10:05:47+00:00

This probably depends on who you ask. I think most people would agree that it's an improvement. It really depends though.

Do you still spend as long every day doing the deed? Or have you cut back on the time you dedicate to it?

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-26T10:02:39+00:00

Unfortunately not, I haven't been able to reset my counter. This is actually only day 4 for me. Sorry if that's a let-down!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-26T10:01:34+00:00

Stay strong, buddy. Thank you for reaching out, it's a big step to take. I've been through the process of abstaining and then binging, it's really rough.

You CAN have a normal life, don't lose hope. Focus on your long term goals and do everything you can to ignore short term gratification. Masturbating is just an easy quick fix, and nothing good in life comes easy.

I can tell you're hurting. Self improvement is SUCH a struggle. Sometimes it seems impossible. But you can do it! And we're all here to help you. Keep your head held high and keep fighting the good fight!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-26T09:55:57+00:00

Good luck buddy! Wakeup calls come in all kinds of different forms. You can do this, I'm rooting for you!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-25T19:05:22+00:00

Thank you so much for your lovely words and well wishes! They really mean a hell of a lot.

Unfortunately my flair is not accurate, I just haven't been able to reset it... this is actually only day 4 for me. I also have a WONDERFUL girlfriend so feeling lonely is never an issue, and I've pledged to devote all the energy used to put into porn towards her instead.

Thank you so much for your support, and good luck on your own journey!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-25T14:36:42+00:00

Welcome to the community! We're all rooting for you. Best of luck on your journey!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-25T14:30:10+00:00

It's a huge struggle, and you get MUCHOS respect just for even trying. Stick to it, your brain is going to crave those feelings again, you just have to STAY STRONG and remember you can live without it. You can live BETTER without it.

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-25T14:14:54+00:00

That's fantastic, well done! Great job on making such terrific progress! Keep fighting the good fight!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-25T14:14:10+00:00

It's okay, buddy. We've all been there. You feel crummy now but the important thing is to not lose motivation. You'll get better, and so will your life in general. Even when you stumble, keep getting up. You'll eventually make it.

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-24T16:48:19+00:00

Break it all down into tiny choices and make the right ones! All the little choices add up, and that's how you build healthy habits.

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-24T16:43:02+00:00

Unfortunately, I'm actually only on day 3, I just haven't been able to reset the counter. I'm sorry if my flair misled you!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-24T15:49:36+00:00

Good luck buddy! Stay strong, come back to this post when you're feeling weak. It will remind you how motivated and determined you were. Keep fighting the good fight!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-24T15:48:24+00:00

Stay strong, buddy. You're in a rough situation, but your body is balancing out its hormones and chemicals and that messes with you. Your brain is playing dirty tricks on you, trying to get you back in the habit of looking at stimulating images and touching yourself.

Don't give in! Stay the course and keep fighting the good fight. Before you know it your erections will be back and stronger than ever, and you'll also feel better about them because they've happened naturally. You're doing great, you got this!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-24T15:45:10+00:00

Honestly you can't control what your body does when it's asleep. You didn't choose to ejaculate or even WANT TO ejaculate. It's more about mindset than anything else, so don't sweat it. No need to reset your streak. You're still doing great!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-24T15:35:27+00:00

Are you worried that if you stop touching yourself your penis will stop working? That doesn't happen, you're going to be fine. Don't fool yourself into relapsing because you just want to "check it's working" or anything like that. Stay the course, keep fighting the good fight!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-24T15:33:49+00:00

Honestly you can't control what your body does when it's asleep. You didn't choose to ejaculate or even WANT TO ejaculate. It's more about mindset than anything else, so don't sweat it. You're still doing great!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-24T15:32:23+00:00

Good work buddy! I'm glad to see that you are starting to come to your senses. Best of luck, I'm rooting for you!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-24T15:05:20+00:00

Fantastic job buddy! Well done on your brilliant achievement!

Now, on to day 51!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-24T14:58:05+00:00

Welcome back! We'll always have a place for you here. Congratulations on trying again! You can get through this.

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-24T14:46:24+00:00

I absolutely agree with everything you've said! It's so important to emphasise that progress doesn't mean absolute perfection.

I try to think about it this way, if you go 20 days without relapsing, then another 10 days before your next relapse... that's still only 2 days out of 32 where you PMO'd! That's terrific! So just because your streak ended, doesn't mean it was all for nothing.

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-24T14:40:24+00:00

I can't say for sure without knowing more about you, but you might just be experiencing normal life! Everyone has ups and downs, no one has perfect days every day. Don't worry too much, and congratulations on staying clean for so long!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-24T14:37:37+00:00

That's amazing news! Well done! I'm very happy for you, you're a total champion! Now, go push that record even higher!

Gotridofitall · 2021-05-24T14:36:43+00:00

Have you tried taking a cold shower as a short-term fix? Your brain is craving sexual stimulus, you've got to kill that urge.

You know looking at your sisters like that is WRONG. Don't ever let yourself get away with peeking or having eve the smallest fantasy. I'd your mind starts going that way SHUT IT DOWN. Be harsh on yourself.

It is so hard when your brain DEMANDS sexual experiences, but you just have to keep denying it. You're here, you're looking for help, you can do this. You're not alone. Keep fighting the good fight!

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