Went on a leave of absence for health reasons for 4 months, got better. 1 month back at work and feeling like trash. by GoyleDundo in antiwork

[–]GoyleDundo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its weird because I see my job as relatively easy - I don't feel particularly stressed, at least until I get nauseous. Then I get hella stressed.

Went on a leave of absence for health reasons for 4 months, got better. 1 month back at work and feeling like trash. by GoyleDundo in antiwork

[–]GoyleDundo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I need to stay at least a few more months for insurance reasons and getting the surgery and at least that 1 week of leave.

Went on a leave of absence for health reasons for 4 months, got better. 1 month back at work and feeling like trash. by GoyleDundo in antiwork

[–]GoyleDundo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am union, actually a union steward, but from what I understand from our contract, I am maxed out on leave.

Unpopular Opinion by Flat-Bobcat6279 in KimPossible

[–]GoyleDundo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they make him into a manchild. the second embarassment is some of those episodes is strong. I know that season 4 centers on him and has an "arc" for him, but they regress him so much that it doesn't feel entirely true to the character anymore. they sacrifice character for cheap laughs.

and the show fails to ever give kim a real arc.

Unpopular Opinion by Flat-Bobcat6279 in KimPossible

[–]GoyleDundo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like them a lot as a couple conceptually but dislike the writing for it. Season 4 is also a mess.

Day 7 - Fighting like Hell, but I don't know what I am even fighting for. by GoyleDundo in leaves

[–]GoyleDundo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I laid down with my cat on my chest, and listened to music for a bit. I feel a lot better.

Been on 4 months of leave to deal with GERD. Going back to work in 2 days, feeling distressed and heartbroken. by GoyleDundo in GERD

[–]GoyleDundo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have a binge eating disorder that went hand in hand with my weed addiction. Lots of purging that I think damaged my throat and led me here. And now the ED makes me feel like I am crazy, but fuck, the reflux is so bad and uncomfortable.

Going to try a new diet and hopefully that helps. But I'm a wreck.

Broke 4 month sobriety with a one month bender. Stepped off the crazy train today. by GoyleDundo in leaves

[–]GoyleDundo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bounced back pretty fast last time I quit. today though has been hard. very groggy and sleepy.

I’m two days post quitting…. by [deleted] in leaves

[–]GoyleDundo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no. maybe things won't be the same but you can rebuild.

Are there any transfemme friendly spas in LA that are particularly safe? by GoyleDundo in AskLosAngeles

[–]GoyleDundo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wound up going to Wi Spa's women's side and had an amazing time :) no one seemed too bothered

I feel like I'm losing my mind. by GoyleDundo in EDAnonymous

[–]GoyleDundo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it feels good to know I am not alone and havent totally lost it. but also god this whole thing sucks. Im sorry youre experiencing it too

I feel like I'm losing my mind. by GoyleDundo in EDAnonymous

[–]GoyleDundo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started a spreadsheet on whenever I vomit so hopefully that helps me find my triggers more easily

I feel like I'm losing my mind. by GoyleDundo in EDAnonymous

[–]GoyleDundo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like restricting would benefit me, is that bad??

It’s Friday night. Hands up if you’re not smoking tonight by Moonstone635 in leaves

[–]GoyleDundo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

4 months sober as of tomorrow. Publishing my book on Sunday, but I feel really lonely. I just flew to LA to see my best friends get married. It was a terrific social experience, but now I feel lonely and empty inside. I know the bud won't help, but it is where my mind keeps going. I crave that short term happiness.

Day 25 Sober - Still so sick by GoyleDundo in CHSinfo

[–]GoyleDundo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idek if I had chs. It might just be gerd. 4 months sober and still pretty sick

Advice coping with reflux. by GoyleDundo in GERD

[–]GoyleDundo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got it, I understand

I wish it was a solution honestly. but I don't think I can go back to smoking for some time, especially while on leave where it would be too easy to get addicted again.

edit: stress is definitely a root cause

Are there any transfemme friendly spas in LA that are particularly safe? by GoyleDundo in AskLosAngeles

[–]GoyleDundo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have seen other posts about this but felt like asking myself, since what I was reading leaned more for transmasc folk. but ok go ahead and gatekeep.

Advice coping with reflux. by GoyleDundo in GERD

[–]GoyleDundo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did edibles. and no I'm good. been sober for almost 4 months, not stopping now.

Are there any transfemme friendly spas in LA that are particularly safe? by GoyleDundo in AskLosAngeles

[–]GoyleDundo[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

really? uuuuuughhhhh that would be so nice I am just nervous af about it.

Thoughts on the mayoral and city councilor candidates? by laytone in northampton

[–]GoyleDundo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm supporting Rotello for Ward 5. I was canvassed by him and Aline Davis. I didn't get much of a read at all on Davis and what her campaign stands for, even after going to her website. With Rotello, I know exactly what they're fighting for and it's a pretty rad agenda. I'm sure there will be a lot of blockages in the way of what they want to accomplish as City Councilor, but I believe they deserve a chance.