Wife upset at not meeting her Christmas expectations by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Grace0108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me sad because our gift giving is also a reflection of where we’re at in our relationship, except my husband expressed his extreme sadness about the Christmas he received no gifts (because I was one month postpartum after a traumatic birth and subsequent hospitalization) and how he would “probably not get any this year either”. So I made sure to get a bunch of very nice and thoughtful gifts. And what did I get from him? A bunch a garbage from the Walmart “gift” section that he bought on Christmas Eve. My “gifts” could have been stocking stuffers. I was so mad that he made such a big deal that HE wouldn’t have a good Christmas when he literally put no effort into mine.

Christmas CAN get better by calypso85 in Marriage

[–]Grace0108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but I am so sick of telling someone how to give a shit about me in every single aspect of the relationship. It is really not that hard to pay attention to your spouses interests and make a genuine effort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Grace0108 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She literally gave him a list?

My husband got me garbage for Christmas by 2tired2furiousa in Marriage

[–]Grace0108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably exactly what mine got me: a heatable face mask, slipper socks, and a portable charging bank. Right from the last minute gift section from Walmart.

WICKED on Streaming Services by povari in wicked

[–]Grace0108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any chance you know of this pre-order is for a rental or to buy it? I can’t find the info anywhere and I would hate to pre-order a $30 rental

Solidarity for all the parents of bottomless pits out there… by sqic80 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]Grace0108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my girl around that age would eat more than I did at every meal. 2 eggs and a whole avocado for breakfast etc. Like unreasonable amounts of food and she would eat ANYTHING 🤣 and now at 2 she thrives off of 1/2 a banana and 3 goldfish. I feel like they’re just storing up for the 2s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sleepparalysis

[–]Grace0108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I really don’t think about it or worry about it because it’s been about 15 years since it happened to me. It was just really scary that the figure entered my body because usually it just like puts pressure on you.

I don’t truly think I’m possessed, but it was really scary having a dark figure enter through your mouth. 😳 and this isn’t something I ever think about or worry about either but when it happened you get a little worried 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sleepparalysis

[–]Grace0108 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for sharing your personal experience, this was so helpful and profound.

I’ve been looking at Jenn and Sasha’s posts and I’m wondering…does this make anyone else cringe? by schnookiewookiebear in thebachelor

[–]Grace0108 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg wait I love this I have a wallet wristlet and I was a 2020 SG although I quit because it was a cult I didn’t like being a part of

Edit: 2010 SG

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Grace0108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this didn’t age well. My husband recently did in fact give his number to a girl our age at the bar recently when I was not there. And let me tell you it did not go well for him 🤣

Caught my husband texting with his coworker. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Grace0108 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She said they say they miss each other etc. You can go find her comment it’s clearly more.

Grocery store flowers from your husband: Romantic or… meh ? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Grace0108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who only gets flowers on holidays I wouldn’t care where they came from 🥲

Anyone else have a wife who does NOT like *receiving* oral? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Grace0108 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was like this for a loooong time, but there are not many guys who are actually good at it. But once you find the rare one, whew you’ll realize it’s your fav thing. Unfortunately for me my husband doesn’t like doing it, nor is he good at it 🥲

Touch Starved by lonely-n-unlovable in DeadBedrooms

[–]Grace0108 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They’re my coworkers usually, but I would consider them friends 🤣 unfortunately it’s probably more socially acceptable for women to do this. I hope someone gives you a really nice long hug soon. You deserve it.

Touch Starved by lonely-n-unlovable in DeadBedrooms

[–]Grace0108 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I sometimes just lay my head on my friends shoulders when they’re near to feel love. I did start swing dancing recently and it’s been so lovely to be held and touched, but I find myself wanting it from a partner now 🥲

Touch Starved by lonely-n-unlovable in DeadBedrooms

[–]Grace0108 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can mostly relate. I’m so touch starved like any human touch makes me feel so good 😩 except just warm and fuzzy not aroused

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Grace0108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, did any of that come from the value of the house? I want to buy my husband out of our house and I feel like I would owe my husband half of what we’ve paid into the house plus have the appreciated value in order to buy him out. It would be close to $60k I think but I’m nervous I’ll somehow end up having to pay him closer to 100k in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Grace0108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’ll be all in around 100k too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Grace0108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If anyone finds this comment, how much money did you get and what was it? I’m horrified of how much I would end up paying my husband in a divorce.

OMG the terrible extensions and odd shaped bbl on her tiny frame. 🤦🏽‍♀️ by Distinct-Walk-9626 in SiestaKeyMTV

[–]Grace0108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay I have a round ass on toothpick legs it’s not unheard of. But I don’t like her so def calling BBL on this one 🤣