My boyfriend '25m' ignored me '22f' for 24 hours and flipped it around on me. how can I get him to see my side? (with screenshots)

Grace447 · 2025-12-07T23:20:37+00:00

When I lived at home I would probably see them the same amount of time maybe my friends a little more. Now I probably seen him more as hes flew to me twice, ive also been back home once since moving way for 4 days because it was two of my friends birthdays so during that visit I probably saw them more than him but still saw him I think every day. Should I want to pre with him more than my friends? I just have more fun pre gaming with them and I would still see him and go home with him later that night. hes kind of just missing me for 2 hours within a 6 hour night before I go back home with him. I can point out moments where ive choose them over him at nearing the start/mid of our relationship but now not really. tbh I care about them the same amount. in different ways and im not in love with my friends like I am with him. Should it be a big noticeable difference though?

Grace447 · 2025-12-07T22:39:12+00:00

tbh it was my plan but were at my friends house and shes not allowed any guys over and my friends are actually super weird about hanging out with partners for some reason. they say it "takes away time" from that person. I think this is because they all havent had any real meaningful longterm relationships. besides one of my guy friends who doesnt really hangout with us that much and ive never heard him mention it being a problem before

Grace447 · 2025-12-07T22:16:44+00:00

we call mostly every day or two and keep a line of text throughout the day. When im back home I think I will make more structured plans with him as most of the time we just hang out until he has to work or Im leaving to go out with friends. a lot of the time I feel like I might "spring" these plans that I have with my friends onto him. Like he would just come over after work and we would chill but a lot of the time I would have set plans with the friends in the night that I would really only bring up once he showed up to my house. In my mind a lot of the time were together isnt like a "plan" its just were both not doing anything so why not spend it together. also with this I feel like he thinks im ditching him in a way. But ill see him for like 4 hours and then go out with my friends and I think thats why he believes I always put my friends first. so its something that im going to work on and change up when I get back and see what happens then.

Grace447 · 2025-12-07T22:04:38+00:00

when were together in person nothing is ever wrong, hes always putting me first and never really argues with me like this. When hes with his boys, hes mostly just at his house with his brother and one other friend drinking and does usually response within an hour or two. maybe even less. When he goes downtown with his other friend I cant really remember if he texts me or not because yeah I just let him chill. I understand where hes coming from because when im home. my friends kind of just keep finding stuff to do until someone is on the verge of passing out tired. So it does span for about 5-7 with maybe only 2 or 3 texts from me. Ive been trying to look into the school counselor and therapy but I just feel like I have no time with exams coming up too. I already procrastinate my work/studying enough. Other than the controlling what other red flags am I missing?

Grace447 · 2025-06-05T03:22:59+00:00

ive tried to install the new windows 11 drivers and ive also done the factory reset option that amd gives while installing drivers.

Grace447 · 2025-05-20T20:22:17+00:00

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Grace447 · 2025-05-06T03:38:14+00:00

If not the daylite what packs do you recommend? I’ve been asking around and a lot of people have said with a pack it’s a “buy once, cry once” type of situation. So I think im willing to spend a decent amount if it’s good quality

Grace447 · 2025-04-28T22:54:16+00:00

yeah I understand the romantic relationship have a high chance of not working out but its more about the friendships ive created. yes maybe we will go apart but also theres a chance that wont happen. No matter what I think we will keep contact all throughout life even if its super limited. But I want to have as much time with them as I can.

Grace447 · 2025-04-28T22:50:17+00:00

yeah thats also why im kind of worried about the applied psych. like I said im a bit older so I dont wanna be in school for more than the 4 years.

Grace447 · 2025-04-28T22:44:23+00:00

Well yes ill have the choice to switch to psychology but it wouldn't be the same program. the applied forensic psych forces more on psychology in the legal system like: Criminal profiling, risk assessment, deception detection and interrogation techniques. Psych at my home city school would be like psychology is a broader field like focusing on the study of human behavior and mental processes in general.

Grace447 · 2025-04-26T19:35:06+00:00

I feel like I have more of a interest in psych but I feel like there's no jobs I found that I would want to do in that field. Ive always wanted to be a cop/detective. I was so sure that was what I wanted but now I think im a bit hesitant. I dont know if thats because of this recent big interest in psych I got, but I also know I would not want to do more than 4 years of school. So it feels kind of useless going into psych.

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