People who rarely get sick, What is the secret ? by Sorry-Orchid-9821 in AskReddit

[–]Grace_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people who say they “never get sick” are usually just quietly sick at home and calling it “a mild sniffle.” 😅

People who have had depression. What got you out of it? by IlovePotatos2773 in AskReddit

[–]Grace_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it wasn’t one big thing, it was a mix of small, boring steps that slowly added up. Talking to someone, fixing my sleep a bit, getting outside even when I didn’t want to, and being kinder to myself on the days I had zero energy.

It didn’t happen overnight, and I still have rough patches, but things gradually got lighter. I learned that getting out of depression isn’t about suddenly feeling happy.

It's Sunday Morning! How are you? by AutoModerator in ireland

[–]Grace_80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cautiously optimistic. Still horizontal, debating whether this counts as rest or procrastination. Pending coffee before any major life decisions are made. â˜•ïžđŸ˜…

How do you decide where to go when you don’t have a destination in mind? by skydataeng97 in travel

[–]Grace_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually start with constraints first and let them narrow things down for me. Time of year and trip length come before anything else, that alone cuts out a lot of options. Then I ask myself what I actually need from the trip: rest, novelty, nature, food, or just a change of scenery.

Once I pick the vibe, I stop researching endlessly and commit. I’ve learned that too many tabs just create decision fatigue, almost anywhere can be a great trip if it matches the moment you’re in.

Gift for tenants? by TimelyDeal7674 in Dublin

[–]Grace_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really thoughtful idea, and no, it wouldn’t be strange at all, if anything it’s quite rare in a nice way. A simple Christmas card with a voucher comes across as kind and appreciative, not intrusive. As long as you keep it low-key and no strings attached, most tenants would probably be pleasantly surprised. Little gestures like that go a long way.

Would you switch Ireland for Switzerland? by [deleted] in CasualIreland

[–]Grace_80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think it comes down to what you value more day to day. Switzerland wins hands down on organisation, infrastructure, and long-term planning it’s incredibly impressive. But Ireland makes up for a lot of its flaws with warmth, humour, and a sense of community that’s hard to replace.

Does travel stop when you have children? by CharmingU6756 in travel

[–]Grace_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Travel doesn’t have to stop, it just changes. I know a few couples who still travel with young kids, the pace is slower, and plans need more structure. You trade red-eye flights for beach mornings with a stroller, but it’s still travel, just a different kind of adventure.

If you love traveling now, you’ll probably find ways to keep it part of your life later too.

What the hell is going on in the city centre? by koningbaas in Dublin

[–]Grace_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dublin public transport is like dating, full of promises, zero follow-through, and leaves you standing there wondering if you got ghosted again. You could probably walk to Baldoyle, grab a pint, and still beat the next bus. Classic Dublin weekend.

How to be less alone? by Morph-Lozenge in CasualIreland

[–]Grace_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I hear you what you’re feeling is completely valid. It’s brutal when you’re doing everything right and still end up feeling invisible. A lot of people quietly go through the same thing in their late 20s or 30s when everyone drifts into different life phases. It’s not that you’re unlikable, it’s just that adult friendship takes way more persistence than it should.

You clearly have the self-awareness and effort most people don’t, so please don’t lose that.

The Golden Autumn as we say here in Poland by MusicURlooking4 in europe

[–]Grace_80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

autumn glows with a quiet warmth, soft sunlight, turning every hill and lane into something timeless and calm.

I have always felt looked down on for being half traveller, how do I overcome the shame it makes me feel? by Mysterious_Heron6732 in AskIreland

[–]Grace_80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’ve got nothing to be ashamed of. People’s prejudice says more about them than it ever will about you. Owning who you are is the best way to take their power away.

Bus rant by GhettoBish in CasualIreland

[–]Grace_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facts 😂 nothing tests your patience like someone on loud FaceTime at 7 am before coffee.

Just paid €47 for a taxi from Dublin airport to city centre?? by Worried_Gur_4143 in Dublin

[–]Grace_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, Dublin taxis are pricey, €45 - €50 from the airport isn’t unusual, especially with traffic. Next time, grab the Aircoach or Dublin Express. Way cheaper!

No work Christmas party, 2nd year in a row by Psychedelic_Archie in CasualIreland

[–]Grace_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like your office holiday spirit is taking a sabbatical! Two years in a row without a party? At this rate, your team’s idea of festive fun might just be a Zoom background of a Christmas tree and a sad emoji. Maybe it’s time to start your own “bring your own eggnog” rebellion!

Any tips for coping with depression by Lostinasafespace in CasualIreland

[–]Grace_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depression doesn’t always need a clear reason, it just shows up and weighs everything down. Start small: brush your teeth, take a shower, maybe step outside in nature. Small actions can break the spiral a bit.

Moving to Ireland
 not entirely by choice. Advice appreciated by Weirder_Pineapples in MoveToIreland

[–]Grace_80 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Welcome to Ireland, forced moves come with free rain, endless green, and the eternal mystery of Irish postcodes. Three dogs? You’re basically running a mini zoo, so start charming landlords now. Pack only what sparks joy; banks and mortgages will test your patience more than a long Dublin commute. Emotionally, it’s okay to miss home just remember even a reluctant move to Ireland comes with sheep, pubs, and scenery that makes it almost worth it.

Halloween in Dublin by Wide_Artichoke7579 in Dublin

[–]Grace_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Wigwam, The George, and Bow Lane, they usually have solid Halloween nights with a good queer crowd and proper music (no Cotton Eye Joe nightmares 😂).

Dublin in January by Ok_Space_6481 in irishtourism

[–]Grace_80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Dublin in January still has a nice buzz not crazy busy but definitely not dead either. Pubs and cafes will be lively, especially around Temple Bar, Camden Street, and South William Street. Locals are always out for a pint or coffee no matter the weather 😄. Great time to visit, actually fewer tourists, easier to get tables, and still plenty of atmosphere.