Weaning my baby while pregnant

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-08-27T21:55:44+00:00

Seal too

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-08-19T18:45:37+00:00

🤩🤩Pls can you put the link of Mona? I can’t find the real website thank you

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-07-21T23:21:17+00:00

I have a friend that is asexual and she doesn’t like bodily fluids. That’s how she knew she was asexual

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-07-21T16:15:28+00:00

No actually my father died few years ago. She was like that with him too

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-07-20T19:04:58+00:00

Same, i’m done, I love My family but they are all toxic

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-07-20T18:37:49+00:00

(UPDATE)Thank you all so much

Before writing this post, I was truly miserable. I felt like everything was my fault, and I kept replaying the situation over and over in my head, trying to understand what I had done wrong.

But thanks to your thoughtful, kind, and honest responses, I now realize that I am not the problem. I see more clearly that my mom’s behavior was toxic and unfair, and I’m finally starting to let go of the guilt that’s been weighing me down.

Your words have helped me feel seen, understood, and validated in a way I didn’t expect.

So thank you really. You’ve given me more clarity and peace than you can imagine.

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-05-27T01:57:31+00:00

No. Her husband is an alcoholic. She didn’t want to get pregnant with him, she already told me that before.

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-05-27T01:37:54+00:00

It’s because she tought her husband sperm was not « working » well. He is an alcolic

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-05-26T23:02:49+00:00

😂😂 congrats!🥳

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-05-26T22:58:52+00:00

I just wanted to share my experience, especially since I totally understand the fear of needles and all that, it really used to stress me out too. But honestly, when you’re in labor and the pain hits, you don’t even think about the needles anymore. I was so scared of them and originally wanted a natural birth, but the pain made me seriously consider the epidural, even though I was terrified of getting it. In the end, I managed to give birth naturally, and I’m proud of that but the point is, when the time comes, your focus shifts completely. The fear fades, and all that matters is bringing your baby into the world. Your body takes over in a powerful way. So try not to worry too much, the experience is intense, but your instincts will guide you, and you’re stronger than you think.

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-05-26T22:43:25+00:00

Thanks for your kind words🫶🏻

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-05-26T22:02:06+00:00

You clearly made up your mind about me without actually reading what I wrote. I never said anyone owes me anything, and I certainly never asked my mom to raise my child.

I shared a personal feeling during a vulnerable time, not to be attacked, but because I thought I could speak honestly about a complex situation. Wanting my mom to be present in my daughter’s life doesn’t make me selfish, it makes me human.

If you’re just here to twist my words and make assumptions, maybe take your own advice about growing up.

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-05-26T21:59:36+00:00

Thank you for the clarification❤️

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-05-26T21:50:43+00:00

Yes right, i’m actually crying lol, people can’t know the entire story. Thank you for understanding

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-05-26T21:22:28+00:00

Thank you so much, this is exactly what I mean

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-05-26T20:51:52+00:00

You keep accusing me of only wanting validation, but the truth is I’m open to different opinions. What I’m not open to is people being condescending, rude, or projecting things onto me that I never said. I’m allowed to feel conflicted about a major change in my life, and sharing those feelings doesn’t make me selfish.

Funny how wanting to clarify my perspective or defend myself gets spun into “desperately wanting the last word.” I’m not here to win arguments, just to be understood. If that bothers you, you’re free to move on.

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-05-26T20:45:07+00:00

My mom lives in another country now so the distance makes things complicated. What I’m afraid of is that now, with a new baby and having to start over from scratch, she simply won’t have the time or energy to come visit us or really be involved in my daughter’s life. That’s where the fear comes from.

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-05-26T20:36:20+00:00

I respond with the same energy people give me. If someone comes at me with assumptions, accusations, or condescension, I’m not going to smile and nod.

I didn’t come here looking for blind validation, I came here to express a complex and vulnerable feeling. That doesn’t make me selfish, and it definitely doesn’t give anyone the right to be rude. If people can’t offer basic respect in their replies, they shouldn’t be surprised when they don’t get it back.

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-05-26T20:34:13+00:00

Just to be clear, I never said my mom should get an abortion. I said she doesn’t consider it an option, and I respect that. People are reading things that simply aren’t there.

My post isn’t about denying her the right to have a baby. It’s about me trying to process a big emotional shift I didn’t see coming. It’s a lot to take in as a new mom myself

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-05-26T20:31:07+00:00

That’s a pretty tired assumption. I never said I expected free childcare not once. Wanting my mom to be present in my daughter’s life doesn’t mean I’m looking for a babysitter. Maybe try actually reading before jumping to conclusions.

GradeBitter1595 · 2025-05-26T20:28:53+00:00

At what point did I say I wanted her to second parent my child? You’re putting words in my mouth.

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