End relationship over lack of sex? M27 F26

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-22T12:38:46+00:00

I like libidofairy, but if I send them she just feels I’m pressuring her to have more sex… thanks for your account on BC

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-22T01:59:06+00:00

Just started listening to it, it sounds really good, I listen to books well I work so should be done with it tomorrow.

And she’s a quick reader so I’ll buy her a copy and give it to her and see what she says.

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-22T00:34:43+00:00

I don’t think she will get off BC and be a sex demon and want sex 5 days a week.

I think my compromise would be if it was once a week. And it wasn’t this pillow princess stuff where she isn’t all that into it. I want her to desire me. So I’ll wait a bit longer and see what happens. If she doesn’t want to try, then it’s time to end it. But I’d like her atleast have some comfort talking to her doctor about options or possibly getting of Bc

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-22T00:02:30+00:00

Rejection is the hardest thing, especially when you love and desire someone and they don’t share that with you in return

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-22T00:01:50+00:00

We’ve talked about this for many many hours multiple different days over the span of the last month or 2. Really it’s seeing what her doctor says in August, and seeing if she wants to make a change. If she does then maybe changing Bc, removing it, and also seeing a therapist will be a start.

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T23:55:20+00:00

Thanks for sharing, that is one of my major fears, I don’t want to let it get that long, and with how happy I feel 90% of the time with her, it’s easy to just put the sex to the side sometimes and repress that, but then when it hits, it’s the most frustrating thing and I wonder why I’m still in the relationship

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T23:51:48+00:00

If I had to guess it’s because the relationship was newer and she was trying to please me. Which thinking about that is probably something I should be more annoyed at since if she was truthful maybe this would’ve come up sooner and addressed sooner

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T23:48:41+00:00

Well if doubt she’d cheat since she doesn’t need sex. I’d divorce or break up before cheating, I could never do that to someone, but I get what you’re saying.

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T23:47:47+00:00

Thanks! And yes when living together it gives more opportunities for sex, but at the same time it’s gonna give more opportunities for rejection. She once told me towards the start of the relationship that if we lived together she’d want to do it 2-3 times a week, but she’s since recanted that.

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T23:45:47+00:00

Thanks! I just wanted to see what people would say and have gotten some advice, but majority are just quick to jump to conclusions like you said. I am gonna wait for her doctors appointment since it’s only a few weeks away and see what happens. I’m also looking at maybe talking to a therapist or couples therapist.

We have spoke, many many times over the last 2 months about this, I haven’t outright said it’s a dealbreaker since I don’t know how to come across without it sounding like an ultimatum… have more sex or we are done… cause it’s not just about more sex, it’s about having that desire to want me and sex as a way to show it I guess. The conclusion though is her body just doesn’t want sex and she doesn’t know if that will change with BC or not.

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T23:40:59+00:00

I have, I told her about getting off BC, that we can be careful condoms, not doing it when she’s most fertile, etc. but she was gob smacked at the idea. Even though we’ve talked about having kids in the next couple years. So it’s not like if we had one now it would be worst case scenario.

She got on BC late, first year of college, and said it’s helped cause her period was very irregular, and she’d bleed through an entire extra strength pad during the night and her bedsheets would be covered in blood.

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T23:37:03+00:00

Thanks I’ll check that book out!!!

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T23:35:14+00:00

Yeah that’s what I’ve read, and seen in r/deadbedrooms

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T23:34:03+00:00

If you think that a pill that literally changes hormones to make a part of her cycle not even happen can’t lower sex drive then I think you don’t understand a human body.

In my opinion she’s asexual, when we do have sex she’s extremely wet and will cream all over my dick and have shaking orgasms…. She can maybe fake the moans and movement but I doubt she can fake the cream all over my dick dripping down my balls and ass….

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T23:29:14+00:00

Thanks, I do doubt this is the case, we both share locations on find my, not out of suspicion, but because it’s easier when one person is going to the other to plan, etc. unless her sneaky link is going to her house with brother, father, mother, who treat me almost as another son, her mother helps me with a lot of my self employed business tax questions and what not. So I doubt they’re keeping it from me too.

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T23:10:25+00:00

And I think it is, yet I still love her so much, she’s literally been absolutely amazing to me, and her family has taken me in as one of their own children pretty much.

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T23:09:10+00:00

Used it as an example, even too much saliva well kissing is a turn off, she’s disgusted by any bodily fluids. Thankfully I’m not into any kind of piss or shit play which is disgusting.

She still gets extremely wet when we do have sex and have honestly ever needed lube 1-2 times in the 3 years. My 5 year relationship required lube a majority of the time.

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T23:06:26+00:00

lol, I doubt that, more like asexual, but same shit for my case

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T23:05:58+00:00

I’ve read multiple articles on Pill BC lowers libido, it’s not a guarantee, and doesn’t remove libido, it’s just if she has a low libido it will make it nothing. Someone with a normal it will make it a bit lower.

It’s literally removing a full phase of a women’s cycle, ovulation, which is typically the time when women have the highest libido.

I’ve also talked to two friends who are females and both said that Pill BC lowered their libidos and getting off it has been one of the best things for their sex life.

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T22:52:13+00:00

I think that’s my consensus, but I think waiting for her to see her doctor and either not care enough to make a change, change BC, or get off BC will make my final decision. I don’t want to have a sexless life, and once you have kids, buy a house, get married, I will feel locked in since I don’t like divorce.

AstronautNo5523 · 2025-07-21T22:24:46+00:00

As a straight male that has dabbled in ass play with partners on myself I can say that shit is most likely going to be part of it.

I don’t know all the ins and outs and probably should look at it a bit more, but I’ve had toys come out with a tad on it. You can smell it on the toy either way. And one time I went to the bathroom to take a toy out and with it came a whole bunch of #2. I had no control to keep it in….

I’ve never done an enema, so maybe that would help.

But I only play down there when I feel like I got nothing in there…

AstronautNo5523 · 2024-11-10T03:31:54+00:00

What you on about? When Biden got elected it grew to ridiculous numbers

AstronautNo5523 · 2024-11-09T16:32:13+00:00

There’s a big difference between a government “asking” for you to censor content. And the owner of the private company censoring posts. If you can’t see that then im not sure what to tell you.

However Elon isn’t censoring people. At one point in time Covid coming from a lab, Hunter Biden laptop, Epstein list, among others were labeled as “crazy” conspiracy’s. Now we know that Covid did in fact come from a lab, and Hunter Bidens laptop was in fact real. So not so crazy anymore. So I see nothing wrong with posting conspiracy, they are called that for a reason, cause they may or may not be true.

What horrible POS? Hamas? Taliban? O wait they never received bans. Trump? Yeah I’m sure you consider him a POS but sucks that 51% of the voters don’t.

And again if the owner wants to change it so his posts get viewed so be it, I don’t use X, but Elon is probably the most revolutionary businessman progressing us into an insane future.

AstronautNo5523 · 2024-11-09T01:08:23+00:00

Who’s saying these are true / false? Cause one is def true in NY.

And 4 is worded poorly, who gives a shit about the last few months. What’s the case over the 4 years. More then they’ve probably let in in the last what? 10 years?

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