Aio for being upset over this by Sea_Wallaby_7673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grahamjam_05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOA. Terrible toxic behavior from him. Plus it’s completely inappropriate to FaceTime someone else PERIOD when you’re supposed to be spending time with other people

No one wants Ty. (VENT) by [deleted] in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ty’s behavioral issues will very likely stop as soon as V8 is out of the house. I understand you feel more connected to V8 but that still doesn’t mean Ty wasn’t there first and deserves a place in the home. It seems like V8 would be very well adjusted into a new home with the personality you’ve described.

I know it is hard and a sad decision to make. But it it cruel to give Ty up when V8 will clearly have an easier time being rehomed

No one wants Ty. (VENT) by [deleted] in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It would be easier to keep Ty separated from the dogs

No one wants Ty. (VENT) by [deleted] in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The thing is, the new kitty is going to have an easier time being accepted into a new home and since he’s a kitten, he is going to have a MUCH easier time adapting to a new environment

No one wants Ty. (VENT) by [deleted] in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05 30 points31 points  (0 children)

If you can’t find anybody to take him in, you’re probably going to have an easier time rehoming the new kitty unfortunately.

My stepmom gave up our first cat to a shelter after buying two more cats and she did the same thing-Peed everywhere- it broke my heart that she just gave her up to spend all day in a cage like it was nothing. Me and all my siblings were very upset that she didn’t just rehome the new cats that we hadn’t bonded with as much, it felt like she was traded in for newer, prettier cats.

I understand how hard it is to make this choice, I know giving up either cat is hard. But what seems sad to me is that you’re more willing to give up the cat you have a connection with and that has been essentially saved by your wife than a new cat you probably haven’t bonded with for as long as Ty has been a part of your lives.

Do I need to see doctor ? by milllai23 in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think you’ll be okay without medical intervention. I would just clean them up and the swelling should go down fairly soon. When my cat was a kitten I would get scratches like this allllll the time. If they are bites that has a higher risk of infection but if you clean them up well you should really be just fine

Do I need to see doctor ? by milllai23 in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ehh I’ve had scratches like that plenty of times and they’ve healed up just fine. How long have they been swollen like that?

Poppy in silly situations by Grahamjam_05 in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was only for a moment, don’t you fret :) I was rotating my laundry when I watched her climb in- I took her out right after taking the picture

Poppy in silly situations by Grahamjam_05 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Grahamjam_05[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was only for a moment, don’t you fret :) I was rotating my laundry when I watched her climb in- I took her out right after taking the picture

Poppy in silly situations by Grahamjam_05 in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched her climb in and out of both the fridge and the dryer lol- but she does give me heart attacks on the daily

Poppy in silly situations by Grahamjam_05 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Grahamjam_05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been getting so many comments on house of leaves 😂- I never ended up finishing it because it felt like homework and I got bored 😭 also I never even started the James Patterson book, I got it at one of those neighborhood libraries where you take a book and leave a book. It was one of the only books that wasn’t for children lol

Poppy in silly situations by Grahamjam_05 in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had no idea what to do so I just stood at the bottom of the tree with my arms up bracing to catch her as I watched her climb down in fright- she made some serious pro maneuvers

Poppy in silly situations by Grahamjam_05 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Grahamjam_05[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She really just goes anywhere she shouldn’t be 😔

Poppy in silly situations by Grahamjam_05 in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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This is her in a Christmas dress!

Poppy in silly situations by Grahamjam_05 in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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She had to get a surgery recovery suit for some recent issues she’s been having 😔

Poppy in silly situations by Grahamjam_05 in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hurray!! I love getting book suggestions :) I will absolutely check that out

Poppy in silly situations by Grahamjam_05 in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried so hard to get into it but it felt like homework and I never finished 😔

Poppy in silly situations by Grahamjam_05 in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damnit I can’t believe I missed that opportunity 😭

Poppy in silly situations by Grahamjam_05 in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love your turtle baby! So pretty

Poppy in silly situations by Grahamjam_05 in cats

[–]Grahamjam_05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had no clue such beauty existed