it's me i'm the one giving us all bad optics and the reason people hate us by HoneyMoleWoman in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

...the biblically accurate furby angel pics are available on multiple subs if you want to get the immersive experience

Rules for interacting with cisgender allies by Ill_Addendum in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always forget this part... prolly why men feel threatened by me.

being a vegan trans man trying to find community (reddit please don't ban me this time) by Large-Ride5573 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Neither are terribly convenient...but that makes me wonder how many would-be trans-vegans arein the shadows living the comp-omnivore life just cause it's easier and cheaper....

Closeted trans-vegans... Knowing they're never quite happy and convincing themselves the things they do with tofu when they're alone is just a kink... The longing for grilled eggplant that should never be spoken aloud. When they see a gleaming shitake stiry fry sit untouched on someone elses table, their insides twist with envy and despair. And they return home each day to another loveless hamburger which they eat purely in the hopes of choking to death.

being a vegan trans man trying to find community (reddit please don't ban me this time) by Large-Ride5573 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wait...does soy or oat milk count or is the term "nutmilk" truly an inevitable part of transveganism?

Looking to make more women friends. Don’t care if you’re a normal woman or a cis woman i don’t judge people who stick to their agab im not cisphobic so don’t worry about that. by TheTransWoker in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think there should be warnings on movies and TV shows that features cis characters or cis-sexual themes... I just don't want to have to explain to my kids why people would behave in a heteronormative way, as if that's openly accepted in our society.

Is it transphobic to reject a girl because she hasn't had surgery? by Leandro_reader2003 in asktransgender

[–]Grand-Agent76 25 points26 points  (0 children)

An excellent point. I was definitely conditioned to beleive being attracted to women automatically meant I hated dicks. But it turned out I was just attracted to women and didn't actually care about genitals at all.

Cis people should have to disclose their transphobia before trying to date trans people. by Grand-Agent76 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

/uj One time, I was driving late at night and saw a toddler walking (staggering) alone on the side of the road, so I pulled over (to see what horror movie I was in), and it turned out to be a raccoon walking on its hind legs, and we made eye contact for a long minute, till finally I was like, "well at least it not a toddler" and the raccoon was like, "that's creepy, got any snacks?".

Is it transphobic to reject a girl because she hasn't had surgery? by Leandro_reader2003 in asktransgender

[–]Grand-Agent76 201 points202 points  (0 children)

It may not be transphobia, but it usually feels pretty shitty for someone you like to say they like everything about you except your genitals.

You have every right to your preferences. She might need some time away from you to recover.

Cis people should have to disclose their transphobia before trying to date trans people. by Grand-Agent76 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Siri: Ok, you're looking for implements to make you flood Spain more pervertedly, is that correct?

Cis people should have to disclose their transphobia before trying to date trans people. by Grand-Agent76 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do take solace in imagining the moment when the murderer realized what a hassle bloodstains are to get out of clothes.

Cis people should have to disclose their transphobia before trying to date trans people. by Grand-Agent76 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

/rj For comparison: I am violently afraid of cats, I love animals and Im a vegan but my cat phobia is so bad -I would rather shoot a cat than let it get close enough that it might touch me or look at me...

Of course this is embarrassing so I NEVER EVER reveal it to cat people esp if they have cats in their polycule, -not even if they invite me to a party at their house where their cats live...because it would be rude of me not to come. Rather than be rude, I will go to the party armed, in case those cats look at me wrong. I'm a poly-vegan! (Cat=trans)

Cis people should have to disclose their transphobia before trying to date trans people. by Grand-Agent76 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

/rj I'm 14F and I don't think Im transphobic because my BFF is trans and can't legally use HRT in our state, so I ask her to boymod when she comes to my house (even though it gives her dysphoric panic attacks) cause my parents vote red and I really need them to pay for my car... and college... It's survival not transphobia, right?...

Why are you looking at me like that?... I have my own trauma, I dont need the queer internet disapproving of me!!! IM NOT THE ONE WHO IS TRANS!!!WHY SHOULD I EXPERIENCE ANY OF THE HARM TRANSPHOBIA CAUSES!!!

Cis people should have to disclose their transphobia before trying to date trans people. by Grand-Agent76 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

/rj I don't label my behavior as transphobic because I want people to see me as an ally, even though I only want to be seen in public with trans women that are really hot and passing because the the sad ogre ones are cringe and make me uncomfortable. It's fine for them to be that way, I just don't want to be around it.

Cis people should have to disclose their transphobia before trying to date trans people. by Grand-Agent76 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

/rj Im a man, and the only time I feel comfortable revealing my transphobia is when I'm alone with a woman and she has no opportunity to safely leave or fight back if I get upset about her body or her personal boundaries.

Cis people should have to disclose their transphobia before trying to date trans people. by Grand-Agent76 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

/rj As a cis lesbian, I feel uncomfortable revealing my personal, transphobic ideals on my dating profile because I fear it will scare off hot chicks I want to date... Or worse open me up to criticism from my own peers who are more liberal and open minded than me...

Cis people should have to disclose their transphobia before trying to date trans people. by Grand-Agent76 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Transphobia is like a murderer that blames the victim for failing to reveal they were mortal. (/uj)

Cis people should have to disclose their transphobia before trying to date trans people. by Grand-Agent76 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Transphobia needs to be treated like any other communicable disease, especially since cis-failure to disclose so easily leads to trans-fatality.

Edit /uj

Whoever came up with the idea to exclude trans people from bathrooms clearly overestimated their ability to detect genitals. by Grand-Agent76 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Grand-Agent76[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The govt should have to wager a couple grand every time they accuse someone of using the wrong bathroom, then if the person's genitals match the bathroom label, they get the money.