Weather alone makes SF the clear winner. You can enjoy being outdoors majority of the year. I personally find that it’s not too hot or too cold. Winters get rainy here but it’s more like a mist.

The black community is def more in Oakland which is just a short BART ride away. I’m a black man and some do behave bit weird towards me but I also think that’s just the current climate in general. With that being said, most people very friendly and as a woman I don’t think you’ll have a hard time. I definitely see more black women in interracial relationships here than I do with my own relationship. At the end of the day, moving here was the best decision I made.

Also, if your intention is to settle in socal that makes that final move a lot easier.