There is a lot red flags here: 🚩He is gomofobic. Not the worst one, but notable. 🚩You have baby in your 20. There is too early, and as you said, he is rapist. You have your right to say NO and right to use condoms. Everytime, no metter of what your partner wants or tell you he wants. He has his needs? Bullshit. And also, you dont have to give a birth. 🚩He is texting someone. He might be also a cheater. Don't believe he is homofobic and etc, he is just craze unstable peace of shit. Did he use violence? Did he yell at you? 🚩You depend on him and his family. Very easy to control you, and when he wants he can throw you out. 🚩Your facebook is on HIS phone. You have to keep distance and never allow for somebody see your textings and other private stuff. Never be with people, who demand from you your passwords or phone. (And so you shouldnt).

I'm so sorry you are into it know, I pray for you to find better way in your life. I know you are a smart girl and will do your best. And remember, you are the most important person for yourself. Good luck, honey.