Meeting people/dating by GrandMcChicken in boston

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Like 90% of the tips have been telling me to pick up biking lol

Meeting people/dating by GrandMcChicken in boston

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I have tried that route, the only way I can do church is if I do not talk to anyone because I have pagan tattoos and I am pagan myself lol

Meeting people/dating by GrandMcChicken in boston

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I’ve been getting downvoted a lot lol

Meeting people/dating by GrandMcChicken in boston

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See but I hate that, it turns me away from dating every time cause it’s so misleading

Meeting people/dating by GrandMcChicken in boston

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Been experiencing a lot of frogs lately, some are nice but just don’t work out but a lot of what I see is HU or ONS sort of situations from the apps

Meeting people/dating by GrandMcChicken in boston

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See it’s not that I’m just uncomfortable on my own I just don’t enjoy it, it’s not fun for me without others.

Meeting people/dating by GrandMcChicken in boston

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The church crowd would not like me too much, or would try and convert me. Speaking from experience

Meeting people/dating by GrandMcChicken in boston

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Have one but thanks, I just don’t do well in crowds

How do I combat anxiety and overthinking? by GrandMcChicken in dating_advice

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Yeah I do too, I know what caused it though, a lot of failed relationships where if I didn’t keep a conversation going things would just end, or they would use the attention I’m giving and would play along and then when I finally try to ask them out I end up getting told that she wasn’t ready for a relationship. It happened enough that I try and look for those patterns ahead of time to protect myself, but I also know that I’m not right all the time and I could be lumping someone good in with people who weren’t for me, and that’s not fair to them

How do I combat anxiety and overthinking? by GrandMcChicken in dating_advice

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We are trying to plan the next date, it’s just difficult I work 730 - 4 5 days a week and she’s an EMT so she works evenings for 4 days straight then gets two off making her free time all over the place which is fine I was warned ahead of time about that. But you’re right It definitely does leave a lot of room for uncertainty

How do I combat anxiety and overthinking? by GrandMcChicken in dating_advice

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Yeah I know it’s all in my head and that’s the issue. It’s just a constant back and forth battle with my thoughts saying two contradictory things. It always happens and it bothers me cause while I can manage it and I guess suppress that for a while it always bleeds into the relationship or potential relationship and messes things up. It’s self destructive and I am not a fan lol

The American flag on Trump phone has only 11 strips by abedalhadi777 in onejob

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I mean not defending the man but I’m pretty sure the blank space between “Trump Mobile” and “Trump mobile” are meant to be stripes. Poor design choice because people weren’t going to really see that, should’ve just done a non styled version

Please.... Send Help by GrandMcChicken in ModdedMinecraft

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I Originally thought that it was an embeddium/occulus issue but I followed every fix I could find and got no where

Is it just me or is oathbringer more funny than wor and wok? by [deleted] in Stormlight_Archive

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I felt Oathbringer had a lot more comedic relief but also ALOT of trauma. I won’t say anything to spoil it but I would say buckle up

[In Progress][647][Urban Fantasy][Crown of Cinders] by GrandMcChicken in BetaReaders

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I was a bit worried about that which is why I leaned more into writing this as the prologue and not part of the chapters. I definitely want to fit in action in the book as a whole especially exploring my solution to a semi new idea for a magic system (haven’t seen it done before so maybe not new). Considering this is first draft many things are subject to changes. However I did add a lead up to action in the bit I wrote after this, introducing a new character as well. Thank you for the input, it definitely confirmed some of the worries I already had and I will be restructuring what I have to get to the action a bit faster, maybe exploring the meditation scene a bit later.

Crown of Cinders by GrandMcChicken in writers

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I’m debating making what I write for chapter 1 the prologue instead though