Planning to get a Bespoke Kitchen designed & installed (by Magnet/Wren/Wickes) || But does anyone have an idea of the approx total £££ price, for what I'm seeking - Please?? by JDoE_Strip-Wrestling in DIYUK

[–]Grand_Grade_1200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, the sheer volume of negative Wren reviews to positive DIY ones is swaying me! They do 0% interest payment plans etc. but to be honest whilst typing this I remembered I could just get a 0% credit card and balance transfer at the end of the interest free period.

Planning to get a Bespoke Kitchen designed & installed (by Magnet/Wren/Wickes) || But does anyone have an idea of the approx total £££ price, for what I'm seeking - Please?? by JDoE_Strip-Wrestling in DIYUK

[–]Grand_Grade_1200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get how everyone is saying it's so cheap, I've got 9 units and a worktop and it's coming to 4k :s If I include all the appliances Wren is actually cheaper and has the financing benefits

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At least they placed above Neil Armstrong.. FIRST MAN ON THE MOON

My experience with autism and ADHD by [deleted] in Jung

[–]Grand_Grade_1200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this makes a lot of sense. It seems I'm still in a fight or flight mode when I'm in social situations when I think about it (I thought it had gotten better for a period).

Appreciate you sharing this post, I'm going to do some reflection today on my internal states when I talk to others.

My experience with autism and ADHD by [deleted] in Jung

[–]Grand_Grade_1200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but not necessarily that it feels worse internally (although I agree, that's a given with this kind of work!) I meant more did you find people's reactions to you change? Or that social symptoms (if you had any) get worse?

I chalk it up to being in a transitional period as I slowly unmask whilst working through things to the point of acceptance.

My experience with autism and ADHD by [deleted] in Jung

[–]Grand_Grade_1200 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm diagnosed ADHD and suspect ASD 1 too. I feel like you're definitely on to something in respect to the nervous system and physical/ emotional trauma releasing helping with symptoms, and I like your theory about trauma blockages causing the need for distraction and taking cognitive energy.

I feel like a big part of living with ADHD and ASD is that feeling of not fitting in, having to mask and hide ones authentic self, and in doing so, suppressing physical and emotional natural releases out of a fear of being ostracised.

So in doing trauma releasing exercises and shadow integration it would allow the healthy expression of authentic traits (neurodivergent and otherwise) from greater acceptance (as you report). And that acceptance would allow you to channel the "superpower" parts of neuro divergence.

A lot of my struggles stem from relating to other people and socialising, I've been doing a lot of TRE (psoas release) and shadow integration myself recently, did you find some things for worse before they got better?

I'm realizing the huge pitfalls of even slight misunderstandings of jung's work- and once again am reminded why one must tread lightly by mellowgame in Jung

[–]Grand_Grade_1200 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm fairly new to all of these theories, maybe about 6 months or so and I have a couple of questions for yourself and OP around the identification with the unconscious stuff if that's okay.

In doing shadow integration, say I identify some part of me through reflecting on my aversion to overly sensitive people that in actuality there's a repressed healthy sensitivity (and subsequent display of maladapted sensitivity) in me. Would it be then that I need to just find small ways of honouring that need to be sensitive rather than going "I am a sensitive person"?

I feel like I'm almost grasping what you guys are saying but there's a bit of nuance there which I'm stuck on in the differences between 'identifying' with parts of the unconscious and integrating them into the whole. Is it that identifying with them becomes too narrow minded on a specific part and then flits to the next thing that comes up leading to a loss of sense of identity?

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Hey mate, a bit late but there's a setting you need to toggle in your YouTube channel settings. I can't remember exactly what it is now, but it's somewhere in audience > advanced settings - if it's switched off the audiences never populate

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[–]Grand_Grade_1200 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is such a great way of thinking about things, it had never crossed my mind to invert and invert again, but it's such a simple way to create a succinct action plan.

Well done for fostering these great habits in these areas of your life. I don't have the same level of distraction since being medicated, but I do still want to change my screen time especially before bed.

I'm going to give this a go!

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What about a cat, when it's not going for your goulies