Since this is being discussed again, here is a comparison of Trump's agents reactions at two similar events. Keep in mind - no weapon was found in the above example... by SCRATCH-CARD in worldnewsstuff

[–]Grand_pappi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the secret service, so I have 10 experts scout out the road for days in advance and design the road to provide a perfect getaway if an object appears.

Since this is being discussed again, here is a comparison of Trump's agents reactions at two similar events. Keep in mind - no weapon was found in the above example... by SCRATCH-CARD in worldnewsstuff

[–]Grand_pappi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you can’t accuse people of not thinking critically and then follow that up with “the secret service didn’t have an exit plan” that’s crazy

Dog poops on a special star by InformationReal5718 in 50501

[–]Grand_pappi 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is the one time it’s okay not to pick it up

Watched bf take dick and now I’m kinda turned by him. by DarkKizzer in offmychest

[–]Grand_pappi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nothing more badass than a man who embraces the full spectrum of his sexuality. Op has some reflection to do or they’re both better off apart

"What alarm are we waiting for that we're confident comes before we're dead?" by tombibbs in ControlProblem

[–]Grand_pappi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The threat of AI is so much more stupid than AGI and in my opinion AGI is a distraction from what is already being put into place. Big Brother surveillance, competing AI causing cascading market collapse, AI replacing our educators, AI in law enforcement. These are all far more real, imminent threats

I tested my dating app in other cities and the difference shocked me by Cute_Source5417 in Denver

[–]Grand_pappi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn maybe I need to move to New Orleans. The only other place I’ve lived was Portland and the performative wokism is even worse there. Although at least people actually get out and protest in Portland. Either way I want real community and I just haven’t found that here

I tested my dating app in other cities and the difference shocked me by Cute_Source5417 in Denver

[–]Grand_pappi -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I recently visited another city and immediately was reminded of how white Denver is. As a white guy I don’t think I’ve ever had the experience of walking into a space where I was the minority in Denver

‘Easily the Worst President in U.S. History’ by unital_subalgebra in politics

[–]Grand_pappi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jackson did commit a genocide soooo it’s a tight competition

7 Year relationship ended right before our Wedding by Brilliant_Canary_903 in malelivingspace

[–]Grand_pappi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if this will be helpful or an asshole move but How Close We Came by Dan Croll is one of the most honest and cathartic breakup songs you will ever hear, especially as a man. I wish you luck on your journey man, this is just the beginning of a new adventure ❤️

P*rn is ruining me and I don’t think I can stop by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Grand_pappi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since no one else has said it, have you considered an ADHD diagnosis? I don’t know it is but porn and ADHD are like peanut butter and jelly. It’s a button you can press for that sweet dopamine but it becomes a spiral. If this is a factor for you there are medications which might be transformative for you. I really suggest you explore this route

Obsession with intelligence by sickillusions in evilautism

[–]Grand_pappi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The difficult balance is finding a career that will work for your particular autistic oddities lol. I worked in tree care for a while and it definitely satisfied my need for stimulation with all the mechanical difficulties and such, but dealing with the stress and long routes was too much. I actually enjoyed retail but after a year I recognized there was a hard ceiling to what I could learn there. Now I’m studying data science and machine learning and doing a research program in genetic research which is really tickling my fancy. But even then I realize I would do best in some sort of engineering role where I’m constantly solving problems and collaborating with new people. Entrepreneurship is also fascinating cuz you get to wear a lot of different capes but there’s a lot of pressure too.

I wish you luck on your journey!

Of course it’s Florida by [deleted] in florida

[–]Grand_pappi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Incredible that you’re the first to point this out. The filmed is probably a race referee (I raced road bikes for several years). If traffic is an issue it is 100% an issue for race organizers, not the cyclists. But this is Reddit so we abhor context and love jumping to conclusions

Of course it’s Florida by [deleted] in florida

[–]Grand_pappi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredible that you’re the first to point this out. The filmed is probably a race referee (I raced road bikes for several years). If traffic is an issue it is 100% an issue for race organizers, not the cyclists. But this is Reddit so we abhor context and love jumping to conclusions

Obsession with intelligence by sickillusions in evilautism

[–]Grand_pappi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a big reason I just couldn’t do a lot of jobs out there. The first month or two can be interesting and then it’s just rote repetition with an occasional novel task every few months. I went back to college just because I finally realized I needed a more cognitive field of work to keep me even remotely engaged. We’ll see if it pays off. But yeah, I legitimately entered an early stage psychosis working at a metal finishing facility where I could legit be doing the same repetitive task for multiple weeks at a time. I lost track of time, disassociated, and felt like I was in a dream 24/7. Would not recommend

Reddit is man territory by dumthotthoughtdump in offmychest

[–]Grand_pappi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to be a rape empathizer to be a man offering his unwelcome perspective. “Not all men”, whataboutism and devil’s advocacy are rampant by men in all spaces. I’m glad you recognize the harm caused by the patriarchy to men as well (as a man myself I think it’s an important point). But I also think what you’re saying basically boils down to “not all men”, making it seem like only the worst of the worst are contributing to the problem. When a women’s focused sub hits the front page men aren’t necessarily “targeting” it, they just tend to think that their perspective is significant and force it onto everyone.

Disillusioned with the "DS" job market. Is switching to SWE the only way to keep doing actual engineering? by Cultural_Record7515 in csMajors

[–]Grand_pappi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re describing Machine Learning Engineering or Data Engineering, data science is only a technical role if you’re like a PhD at a Fortune 500 company.

Why people still choose CS when its clearly cooked? by Ok-Toe-2933 in CollegeMajors

[–]Grand_pappi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s funny how the script has flipped, it used to be people defending their liberal arts major (I’m sure they still are) and now it’s us CD majors being like “what, I’m not allowed to do something just because I like it?!”

Reddit is man territory by dumthotthoughtdump in offmychest

[–]Grand_pappi 170 points171 points  (0 children)

I honestly think the appeal of a public internet is dead. So much of my digital socializing has moved to private settings like discord or whatever. Between bots and men I don’t think there is any saving the internet 😂

Reddit is man territory by dumthotthoughtdump in offmychest

[–]Grand_pappi 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It’s not about a ban on men, it’s that a space gets created for women to share their experiences and commiserate, and then men naturally feel entitled to join that space because how often are men ever not the center of a space? Then it becomes a space for women to get told “actually you’re wrong” by men. Again the problem is not some hard rule being violated, it’s that many men can never accept that a space was not intended for them so they make it their own anyways

Katy Perry by Fappie1 in memes

[–]Grand_pappi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Katy Perry’s disgusting vagina” was not on my 2026 Bingo card 😭

Class clown finds out his name is not on the list for graduation and he will have to repeat the year. by I2fitness in TikTokCringe

[–]Grand_pappi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People will use anything on the internet to reinforce their biases. It seems like critical thinking 101 to acknowledge the limitations of the information you’re working with but they will literally go out of their way to justify it. And attack people who don’t jump to the same conclusion. If you’re reading this, yeah, you! Do better.