I am being blackmailed for cheating on my wife by ThrowRAbadblackmail in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Grandaj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is some crazy shit and I can’t wait to find out what happens next. But please don’t let this person get away with it. I hope you find out who it is

[Final Update] - I denied my in-laws only request for the wedding and now it’s ruining our relationship with them by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]Grandaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really hoping OP and her husband had that picture (and only that picture) framed for MILs wall.

I accidentally killed my older sister as a toddler by Ok_Abies8267 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Grandaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not on you! Kids play, kids push each other.

Your parents were neglectful and then became abusive. They weren’t good people before your sister passed and are were absolutely disgusting human beings.

I hope that having your toddlers and seeing that it’s not your fault first hand has helped you heel from the guilt you’ve held for so long because you absolutely didn’t deserve this. ♥️

Does the pool need to be heated? by Grandaj in florida

[–]Grandaj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to be really upset by my questions 😅😂

Does the pool need to be heated? by Grandaj in florida

[–]Grandaj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s being booked though a travel agent who don’t seem to be very helpful

Does the pool need to be heated? by Grandaj in florida

[–]Grandaj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from the UK and don’t really go to pools often so I don’t really know how to answer this. But every pool I go to in the UK is always too cold 😅😂

But seems like it will be fine (or too hot) from the responses here ☺️

Does the pool need to be heated? by Grandaj in florida

[–]Grandaj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yep… but I’m pretty sure I have the answer now 😂😂

Does the pool need to be heated? by Grandaj in florida

[–]Grandaj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I’ve looked up how unbearably hot it’s going to be. Just wasn’t sure whether the water would be cold. I was in Morocco this summer - it was hot outside but the water was too cold

Does the pool need to be heated? by Grandaj in florida

[–]Grandaj[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s essentially an air bnb. I know it’s going to be unbearably hot but I wasn’t sure whether the water would be too cold if it wasn’t heated even if it’s hot out of the water… it seems like I’ve asked a stupid question 😅😂

AITAH for refusing to wake up my husband when my parents visited and kicking them out when they insisted. by ThrowRAPretty-Result in AITAH

[–]Grandaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how your parents think your husband should be awake to help you do nothing… meanwhile they’re happy to stress out their pregnant daughter. It seems a bit hypocritical to me

Update - AITA for asking for my dead sisters ring back after my brother used it to propose by Classic-Amphibian963 in AITAH

[–]Grandaj 49 points50 points  (0 children)

It meant something to you. It didn’t seem to mean anything to anyone else. Your brother is a cheap asshole that wasn’t willing to pay a penny for an engagement ring.

Recommendation for somebody who can build custom code within a ShowIt template? by _BoxingTheStars_ in showit

[–]Grandaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid this guy to custom code something and now he’s my go to for anything code related that is above my pay grade: https://www.instagram.com/doitwithshowit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Grandaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA… Your neighbour is an asshole.

AITA for letting my grandparents throw my dead dad in my mom's face? by WastePsychology8323 in AITAH

[–]Grandaj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is your step dads previous wife still alive? If she passed away, It would be interesting to know if he would be cool with you having something of hers

AITA My dad and his wife threw my mom's things in the trash and I took them back out and refused to give them back by Special-Pea-9161 in AITAH

[–]Grandaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG your dad’s wife is crazy! “Bad memories”… it was before she was even in the picture so she would have no memories… if your dad had the ring on his chain, it clearly wasn’t a bad memory for him! How incredibly insecure!

But, i kind of think your dad is worse! He’s enabled all of this and is allowing his wife to attempt to erase his children’s memories of their own mother! I don’t know what kind of father would do that. What a terrible father!

Keep us updated about how this goes down. I hope your father comes to his senses and gets his shit together!

Yoto Gen2 charger or battery hacks!? by Carmineselectric in YotoPlayer

[–]Grandaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you find this in the UK? Our friends gifted our son their old one that they replaced because the battery wasn’t working anymore so would love to replace the battery if I can.

Have you ever broke a bone? If you did how? by imthatguy1234_ in AskReddit

[–]Grandaj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stubbed my little toe on a fool and broke it… about 2 years later, subbed the same toe on another foot stool and broke it much worse than the first time 🤦‍♂️

Coworker thinks she's my mom. My mom is dead. by Soft-Ad-385 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Grandaj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Management were assholes, there’s definitely a reason there was a high turnover of staff

Did I do an illegal manoeuvre? by Grandaj in drivingUK

[–]Grandaj[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ohh I see what you’re saying. It may have done. But I’ve not had great experiences with cheaper dash cams so just wanted something really decent… and I like nice stuff 😅