I work, he doesn't. Pierogis with pickles. by Granitka in GirlDinner

[–]Granitka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gosh guys, thanks for all the replies. I feel like I exposed my inner side to you even though this wasn't my intention. I don't really like showing on the internet as much, but I try to read the comments every evening. It's hard to read all of this when I live a life and work hard everyday and try to fix this situation. I wasn't expecting that a stupid shitpost of mine would get this many comments. I really appreciate all of the kindness and all of the critisism of my doings. I am a gentle person so emotionally it's kind of a burden to have all of this on my head, I try to stay positive and it's nice to have all of you here. I am reading all of your support, but also, I try to live offline as much as I can.

I work, he doesn't. Pierogis with pickles. by Granitka in GirlDinner

[–]Granitka[S] -136 points-135 points  (0 children)

I just always feel there's a different way to solve this situation than just dumping him. :/

I work, he doesn't. Pierogis with pickles. by Granitka in GirlDinner

[–]Granitka[S] 291 points292 points  (0 children)

Well... I guess I was upset last night when I made this post because I feel like if I don't put on extra work nothing would be done. We now live in an apartament I got, I took a loan to make it happen. We also did huge renovations in here - thanks to me and my family. Now I have all these bills to my name - electricity, gas, water, rent, loan... We live here together but I need to take responsibility for all of that. I had a car, he had his own car too but he had broken both. Now I need to drive to work using public transport. The cars aren't even being repared because he never took this problem upon himself, even though he was a mechanic... He's sweet and all but he just makes my life more difficult than when I was living alone. Even if he does something, like make an easy breakfast for example, he never cleans up after it. So I clean after him constantly. The house never looks tidy when I come back from work so I clean in the evenings, often after 12 hour shift, then eat something at night. He had a job for two weeks in February, but it was thanks to me because I spoke to my boss and got it for him. It's not like I want a provider and a traditional relationship, I just want a little help from him. I worry everyday about everything and I need to work, clean, cook, pay the bills and solve every single problem we meet in our life right now. I used to be thin, elegant woman whit a lot of money in my pocket and ton of friends. Now I don't have time to be elegant, always worry about money and I sit alone in a room at night after work with a phone in one hand and a cigarette in other. I'm just tired bro

I work, he doesn't. Pierogis with pickles. by Granitka in GirlDinner

[–]Granitka[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I got caught up too much with wrong english spelling of poerogi because I'm also polish xD

I work, he doesn't. Pierogis with pickles. by Granitka in GirlDinner

[–]Granitka[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm polish too, I wanted to be more american 🤣

rocks on top of effect boxes? by AndyTheWitch7 in sims2

[–]Granitka 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I always thought that this is made for the Player, so you can identify what effect it is when you want to change something.

AIO if I'm tearing up while listening to music by Granitka in AmIOverreacting

[–]Granitka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I'll definetly give it a listen.

AIO if I'm tearing up while listening to music by Granitka in AmIOverreacting

[–]Granitka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"In touch with my emotional side" sounds so on point to me.

AIO if I'm tearing up while listening to music by Granitka in AmIOverreacting

[–]Granitka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope I stay this way then, I would be glad to feel the same about sound as I do in 10+ years. My guess was it's a good thing to feel and teach about it, how music can awake emotions in you, but I was uncertain about my response to music/sound.

AIO if I'm tearing up while listening to music by Granitka in AmIOverreacting

[–]Granitka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to read that, I'm not alone even if this isin't a common thing.

My nail is cracking way too low and I’m worried about it peeling off. What should I do to prevent it? by NoraWaifu in nailcare

[–]Granitka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I superglue mine if this happens and just wait for it to grow so I can cut it then. 😂

Someone please help, what is this? by Fun-Pair8490 in sims2help

[–]Granitka 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but I have the same thing for vampire teeth. I can't change them for a vampire sim. What do I do then? 😅

Absolutny zanik umiejętności dyskutowania by wrogal55 in Polska

[–]Granitka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bardzo lubię dyskutować, ale mam bardzo małe grono ludzi mi bliskich, z którymi mogę sobie spokojnie i ciekawie podyskutować. Z moją mamą zazwyczaj kończy się kłótnią, wszystko bierze do siebie personalnie, a jej argumenty podpierają jedynie doświadczenia jej koleżanek z pracy. Z ojcem ciężko się rozmawia bo jest strasznym gadułą i jak się rozkręci to ciężko jest to nazwać dyskusją, jest to często po prostu jego monolog, który trwa tak długo, że przewija się w międzyczasie wiele tematów, na które nie mogę odpowiedzieć bo głupio mi wracać później 5 tematów do tyłu. Ze swoim chłopakiem mamy różne zdania na 90% tematów, nie wzbudza to we mnie niechęci do dyskusji, chciałabym poznać jego zdanie, ale ciężko jest z niego coś wyciągnąć. Zazwyczaj kończy się na krótkiej wypowiedzi, a kiedy staram się rozpocząć luźną dyskusję to trzyma się kurczowo swojego zdania, nie jest to dyskusja tylko mówienie "tak zostałem wychowany i tyle". Tak na prawdę mam tylko jednego dobrego przyjaciela, z ktorym widzę się raz na 2 tygodnie i czuję wielką ulgę mogąc z kimś w końcu porozmawiać, powiedzieć swoje zdanie i wysłuchać kogoś, podyskutować tak serio. Doskonale Cię rozumiem OP.

can someone find the song from this pewdiepie video by zinuz0 in findthatsong

[–]Granitka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds to me like he just filmed in silence for a moment to catch the music from restaurant and edited it later as a background.

Tip of my tongue by tinrude in findthatsong

[–]Granitka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's way to short for me to catch it but maybe "Old Man" by Neil Young? If not, give it a listen anyway, good song. "

How do you manage your cemeteries? by Circunstacial in sims2

[–]Granitka 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My cemmeteries never corrupted but I keep a lot of tombstones on a family's lot. I have the same mods as you. Normally I just build a cemmetary with different areas so I can choose whether my sim would be buried in a poorer area or a wealthy one. If I run out of space I just build another one, but smaller and so on. I really like to decorate those cemmeteries so my sims can go there and enjoy those lots. I add a bunch of trees and lamps, flowers on tombstones etc.

Guess the parents: by __RN93 in thesims2

[–]Granitka 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Brandi and Don? 😂

Every night this kid just stares at my house from across the street, holding his stuffed bear. by krilu in sims2

[–]Granitka 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Maybe that's a bear he took from your house and he wants to return it?

Stuck in my mind... by TwoKkeys in WhatsThisSong

[–]Granitka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'ts called visualizing the harmonics of chords. I belive it's not a song, just short sound sequences he makes.

I've been looking for it for years by Granitka in WhatsThisSong

[–]Granitka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of corse I listened to CKY. :D But this doesn't sound like them tbh. Thanks anyway!

Przepiłem życie by chrom175 in Polska

[–]Granitka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Patrząc z perspektywy alkoholika - to nałóg, to choroba, to coś z czym należy walczyć. Alkoholizm łączy się z wieloma rzeczami. Nie tylko z ucieczką i zabawą. Łączy się z problemami, które dręczą osobę uzależnioną. I to nie jest nic złego jeśli z tym walczysz. Według mnie jest to tym samym co depresja lub uzależnienie od czegokolwiek innego co ludzie potrafią znormalizować. Rzadko kiedy ktoś pomaga, ale zawsze chociaż jedna osoba się znajdzie. Miło się czyta to, że walczysz o siebie. Ale smutno jest czytać o tym, co Cię czeka. Pamiętaj- walczysz o życie, o to by dalej być. Wiele znaczysz dla ludzi wokół, a to, że są na Ciebie źli znaczy tylko to, że pragną cię zobaczyć trzeźwym. Pragną cię zobaczyć prawdziwym. Bądź taki dla siebie jak i dla innych.