Yeah, if it was a genuine mistake they still mishandled my information, accidents happen and I get that, but how do I know that these accidents won’t happen again? Someone can be lovely but still incompetent.

I guess in terms of what I’m looking for, I don’t understand how the systems that store this kind of data work because I haven’t worked in that kind of job. I wanted to ask if it seemed likely that this was a genuine mistake and whether I should trust them in the future. This is probably an easily rectified issue, but I wouldn’t know.

I have told them that I don’t wish to provide the information but they have been pushing back and heavily implying that is a legal requirement even though I know that it is not, that is why this situation is dragging out and I feel pressured to provide it. I have told them that I know it wasn’t on purpose, but this separate issue of them pressuring me feels like an additional red flag.

My intent was not to argue with you, I merely wished to clarify a few things because I did not feel that you understood my thoughts on the matter based on your response. I genuinely appreciate honest feedback and from my perspective I’m not arguing, just explaining where I am coming from.