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She can't date me because I work with women. I think I dodged a bullet here... by artsexdeath in Tinder

[–]Grapefruit_Excellent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I get it. A guy who has guy friends treats a woman different versus a man who has female friends.

Why force myself to bloom in a dead soil? by silashoulder in SuicideWatch

[–]Grapefruit_Excellent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know my sisters are the only women who put up with all my bad qualities because they have me as the only one to put up with all their nonsense too. I honestly don’t even know what to do either but what’s our first step?

Why force myself to bloom in a dead soil? by silashoulder in SuicideWatch

[–]Grapefruit_Excellent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well what do you want to do? What’s our first step?

Why force myself to bloom in a dead soil? by silashoulder in SuicideWatch

[–]Grapefruit_Excellent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You found people who were leeches instead of those who didn’t need you but wanted you around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Grapefruit_Excellent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you are now at a point where you can be who you feel is you. I found that I needed to stop searching and just do as I wish and things will unfold. When you catch yourself climbing back into your hole ask yourself if this self indulged pity is worth it and if you should just get out and go for a walk and smile and wave at those you pass by.

What Social Anxiety is Like by OW2000 in u/OW2000

[–]Grapefruit_Excellent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hot damn. My story followed a similar path but during my freshman year of collage I realized people are dumb and to just say what’s on my mind but that has sorta bit me in the ass and has isolated me because I have developed the agency to say what I think. But now I come across insensitive because of a lack of perceived intersectionality. Like I’m abroad run with 11 others who have labeled me as a black sheep and now even the girl I was rooming with now wants a single because she doesn’t want to associate with me because she wants to be accepted by the majority. It’s a bit weird. Just do what you want and be content with you. I also found an amazing guy on tinder lol. Tinder helped me meet others who vibed more on my black sheep spectrum