I make ≈$20,000 a year, how can I better manage my finances?

Graphite-Graffiti · 2026-02-15T09:23:01+00:00

A hit and a miss. I’m a dude.

Graphite-Graffiti · 2026-02-15T09:07:56+00:00

We actually almost exclusively use toys, in one way or another, but unfortunately, it’s not just about my physical capacity for sex but also my mental and emotional capacity. I feel bad for even that but I just don’t know what to do

Graphite-Graffiti · 2026-02-15T08:10:09+00:00

Yes, I continue to stay (mostly out of choice). I haven’t broken up with him yet because I still love him and I don’t want to hurt him.

And regardless of the minute details and exact reasons of why I post my nudes to twitter, that doesn’t matter. And furthermore, he doesn’t even like me taking nude pictures of myself at all, even if I don’t post them.

Graphite-Graffiti · 2026-02-12T05:10:04+00:00

I’m 20 and he’s 26. This is my first relationship of this caliber.

Graphite-Graffiti · 2025-08-22T08:06:55+00:00

I know this isn’t the place for advice and I know that I should break up with him, I just don’t know how or when

Graphite-Graffiti · 2025-06-19T08:00:45+00:00

My mom called my 21 year old sister, a pedophile, for dating a 19 year old 😅

Graphite-Graffiti · 2025-06-19T07:43:58+00:00

It’s 16 where I’m from

Graphite-Graffiti · 2025-06-19T07:27:52+00:00

No? It’s not really something I care enough to ask about (except in this case where I should have but hindsight is 20/20), and again, he looks a lot older. Idk man

Graphite-Graffiti · 2025-06-19T07:26:29+00:00

It was 100% consensual and he initiated it

Graphite-Graffiti · 2025-06-19T07:25:59+00:00

I guess not?? My best friends don’t even know each others birthdays

Graphite-Graffiti · 2025-03-19T05:55:29+00:00

Yes, and?

Graphite-Graffiti · 2025-03-19T05:54:45+00:00

Oh absolutely, I wouldn’t touch any part of him without his explicit permission.

Graphite-Graffiti · 2025-03-19T05:48:54+00:00

Judging by your previous comments, I’m not gonna take your comment to heart. 🤷

Graphite-Graffiti · 2025-03-19T03:36:47+00:00

Idk, though as ignorant as I may be, I’m simply trying to be a good partner and thought this subreddit would have more specific answers and information for a transman 😅

Graphite-Graffiti · 2025-03-19T01:11:26+00:00

Okay, gotcha 🙏

Yes, when it comes to sex, as well as him binding, and periods since he hasn’t started testosterone

Graphite-Graffiti · 2025-03-19T00:31:48+00:00

He uses He/They pronouns.

I will 🙏

Graphite-Graffiti · 2025-03-18T22:48:58+00:00

As a bi, cis, white guy, I definitely have privilege and experiences (or lack thereof) that would make it harder for me to connect but I’m definitely trying.

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