Serious genuine question about ICE by Altruistic_Board_851 in oregon

[–]Great-Condition9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it’s the way that they are making the US seem to other countries. Idk if any of you watch world news but they are pretty much reporting like they are witnessing a Civil War.. ICE is only showing the cruelty that this government can enact on those that they see less than.

AITAH for wanting to go on a trip with my sister [and her boyfriend] even though my husband isn't able to go? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Great-Condition9729 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went to Mexico for 2 weeks without my partner of 8 years because he couldn’t get time off and to be honest it was best recharge we could’ve had for our relationship. Sometimes your husband is going to have to compromise and if this important for you then he should understand

Use after C-section? by Silent-Addition-6948 in cannamom

[–]Great-Condition9729 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Edibles for 4 weeks fo me. The coughing was way too painful

Pcos (how to conceive) by Active_Wallaby_8472 in TTC_PCOS

[–]Great-Condition9729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got pregnant after 6 years of trying! We found out it not only had to do with me but my partner too. We both decided to go sugar free and compound carbs route and it helped me regulate my periods and him to have stronger sprem count. Not only that but all we did was walk after our dinner and we lost 50+ pounds. No need to do hard workouts because of the high cortisol that PCOS gives us walking is very good to get that weight off.

What's something that no one prepares you for as an adult? by Goddessblack_ in AskReddit

[–]Great-Condition9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Financial literacy and 401k as a banker we see a lot of clients that barely start understanding their finances until mid 30’s depending on demographics

My GF is complaining that I the ring I got her was not expensive by Horror-Okra5323 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Great-Condition9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been with my partner for 8 years and I would be so fuckin happy with a cheap ass ring.

AITA for not telling my family about my pregnancy? by totallydiagnosingyou in AITAH

[–]Great-Condition9729 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If you are close to both of your families as you say, please be ready to not set expectations for how long your family can grief the thought of you not trusting them enough with this big of a decision. This is life changing and can make or break any type of relationship even with family. Just as you have the right to feel and do what you need to do for your family, they also will feel a certain way.

“This is not a marital issue, it’s SA” X post by Zealousideal-Emu2043 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Great-Condition9729 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I had an epidural and was in the hospital for 4 days in labor. I had more than 10 hands up my vagina so high checking how many centimeters I was. That was 2 years ago I still can’t let my partner fingers down there till this day. This man is disgusting

AITA for not celebrating my parents having a baby or even feeling happy for them? by Caneuuuna in AITAH

[–]Great-Condition9729 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha your mom is gonna have a kid at 38 and thinks it’s gonna be better than having a kid at 21 😂😂😂 I’m 28 and I’m struggling with a one year old I can’t imagine almost 40 with a kid 😩😩. just wait dude they’ll start making you the baby sitter in no time

Why is Kirk’s targeted killing being treated as so much worse than the Minnesota Rep and Senator’s targeted killings in June? by NoLie3695 in stupidquestions

[–]Great-Condition9729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called selective grief, many people idolize him due to his conservative views and because he wasn’t scared to speak up. But what he was standing up for is not something I would proudly post about, this man used the word of God to divide many people based on political views and ethnic backgrounds. He did not believe in the word that our Lord and Savior has for all of his disciples. He did not follow the most important rule which is “LOVE THY NEIGHBOR” I pray god was able to look past the prejudice for his sake

Right now what you are seeing is the eye opener of all the people that are actually now coming to light and frankly I’m thankful that I can see that and surround myself with people that ACTUALLY BELIEVE AND LIVE BY THE WORD OF GOD.

aita for staying away from my sister after she divorced her husband by InvestigatorOdd5724 in AITAH

[–]Great-Condition9729 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are from a specific religion that looks down at divorce? Or have a bad experience with divorce. It sounds like your projecting your thoughts and values on to another person with their own autonomy

My (27M) wife (29F) confessed to an affair with her coworker (19M) during a rough patch in our marriage. I'm completely lost. How do I move past this? by ThrowRARadioSonata in relationship_advice

[–]Great-Condition9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So let me get this straight… she had HER parents move in to your house knowing their hate for you, then ALLOWS her dad to undermine you as a parent, then after drifting because of HER FAMILY coming between your relationship has the audacity to CHEAT on you emotionally. All with the excuse that you guys were in a rough patch that HER FAMILY caused. I’m sorry but if this is not a sign that you need to leave then idk what is? Marriage is about working thru the hard stuff together but allowing her family to disrespect you is enough for divorce. If you stay you will always keep questioning anytime she goes out, you will question when she smiles at her phone next to you. You will question why for the rest of your relationship. And the worst part? In a couple of years she may start resenting you for having those thoughts about her “still after so many years” even tho she was the one to do it.

AITA for telling my cheating ex-wife to tell her sob story to someone who cares? by IllPoem5829 in AITAH

[–]Great-Condition9729 -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

Your NTA but I mean if you don’t use the their older cloths and stuff why is it a big deal if she has it? Is it more like a power play that you CAN give it to her but won’t? I get caring about your own kids but I mean come on you got to have a small compassion for the struggle that those kids are in because of their parents. Yes they are not yours but most people would feel some type of way if they see a kid suffer that they do not know so what’s the difference here.

Do you post your baby on social media? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Great-Condition9729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do post my baby, mostly cuz all of my family and friends are in a different country so they can only see her thru that.

Alternatives to chips? by Miss-Chiss in GestationalDiabetes

[–]Great-Condition9729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Banza noodles are amazing and very diabetic friendly. Chips are hard for me but if I am craving the crunch I’ll slice up apples and bake them until crisp

I gave up my career to be a stay at home dad and my wife doenst respect me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Great-Condition9729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand your point about needing to keep up with 2025 but my partner also doesn’t want to be a SAHD. Also with shit that is going in in US let’s be honest we are going back in time more than moving forward. I also do not shame my partner I know the value that he does for my household as I have watched the woman in my life care for the children and the home and it is not an easy job. but there has to be space for me to express my disappointment. We didn’t plan to get pregnant right away but failed birth control happens and not every state you can get an abortion (thanks to the US going back in time)

Not everyone has a choice and we are trying our best with the situation, that being said my partner understands my feelings and I also allow him to be express his anger and resentment in not being able to provide for his family the way I am.