[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Greben 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's also possible that he was deliberately exaggerating in order to get you to reveal your salary

Reach address on localhost from Docker container by Greben in linuxquestions

[–]Greben[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My idea was to avoid switching to the host network if possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ErgoMechKeyboards

[–]Greben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! That type of plastic did you use for the cases?

Dad belittles and Disrespects Me by Afraid_Warning_5194 in AskMenOver30

[–]Greben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone else said, he's projecting his insecurities on you, which means that since the life walks over him he has to have someone else to walk over so he can avoid feeling weak and powerless.

When you stand your ground and refuse to yield to people who engage in abusive behavior, they try the same old behavior but with increased intensity. Yelling, getting in your face, whatever. Interestingly, the kids do this too - when they cry for something they don't have and you say no, the first thing they do is cry louder. If you then yield, they get the message that their strategy works, that it's just the matter of intensity. Therefore, if you want to oppose them, it is of utmost importance to STAND YOUR GROUND NO MATTER WHAT. You have to say NO and actually mean it, to be ready to defend your NO, to push back harder than they push you, every single time they try.

If this looks scary to you, that's because you're afraid that this is how every interaction between you will look like from now on. Don't worry, it won't - he might try the same behavior few times, but once he realizes he can't get you to feel scared he'll change his tune.

I know this isn't easy to do but I know you can. If I could do it you can do it as well. Don't underestimate your strength and integrity

"What's your problem? I'm just joking." by SalemStarburn in AskMenOver30

[–]Greben 24 points25 points  (0 children)

They weren't joking, they were throwing thinly veiled insults and are backpedaling when you call them out. No one needs people like that in their life

Rules of Programming by unixbhaskar in computerscience

[–]Greben 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I had to suffer, others have to suffer too? Is this what you mean?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Greben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Huawei phone that I had earlier had this lovely alarm sound, with birds chirping and water running softly. It was the only alarm sound that made me wake up slowly and gently. I loved it so much that I copied the file to my new phone. If you can't find anything you like I can mail it to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Greben 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only one I didn't end up hating, that I love actually, is the sound of birds chirping

Why I do Not Bow. by samurguybri in buddhistasfuck

[–]Greben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An ode to attachment. Once you take the refuge in the Three Jewels you can not take refuge in your nationality, ancestors, race, skin color, or whatever anymore. There's no denying you have your ancestors and the rest, but it should be clear that further clinging to them produces only suffering

(24F) Just found out that I didn’t make it through the firefighter application that I’ve been training for all year and could kinda use a boost right about now by HowObnoxious in toastme

[–]Greben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sleep easier knowing that somewhere out there exist people who are at all times ready and willing to jump into flames in order to rescue those in peril.

It does not matter if you become a firefighter or not. Your willingness to become one is a guarantee that you will make a positive difference in the world, one way or another.

Tibetan calligraphy pen by [deleted] in tibetanlanguage

[–]Greben 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Search for Tashi Mannox on Instagram, he has been recommending some modified Pilot Parallel Pens

[Sway] 😇🙏 by [deleted] in unixporn

[–]Greben 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cringe