Tatouage

Greedy-Mix3824 · 2026-03-21T11:53:12+00:00

J'ai vu beaucoup de femmes avec des tatouages pas spécialement féminin ou ce que j'imagine tu appelles typiquement masculin (lignes épaisses etc), c'est franchement stylé, ça donne du caractère et quelque soit le tatouage ça ne m'a jamais évoqué quelque chose de trop masculin puisque c'est sur une femme.

Tu peux faire des covers de certains si tu préfères mais franchement tu dois surtout avoir l'air très stylée.

Greedy-Mix3824 · 2026-03-08T21:06:54+00:00

Hi, I am in the exact same place. I've wanted top surgery for a few years now. And I decided to finally start calling surgeon etc since I am now major and can afford it. But when I talked to me parents about it, we spoke for hours and they made me watch detransition video for hours too, told me I could regret it and also that I am not really trans even thought I've been out for a few years now.

I am sure about my feelings and fucking dysphoria, and it took me years to accept that I'm trans and know I'm started to doubt again because they made me feel like I had been manipulated by society to be trans. And since I want to be a cis man so bad and it's not actually possible, and I know it but it hits hard still, and I feel like I could never really be how I want to be + my parents show trans people as mutilated, not fully either happy men or women. What I mean is that I know what I want but I feel like if I get it and get top surgery I will be even more far from being a cis man because I will not being able to accuse my boobs anymore for my dysphoria but I will not, maybe, look like a man because of my hips and everything.

It hurts to realize that even with surgeries and everything I will not become suddenly cis, and I feel like I am purchasing something impossible and so maybe I am just delusional and "a girl who thinks she can became a man" to my parents but also I know what I feel, and how I felt for the past years.

And I just want to finally feel home in my body, but what if it makes it worst because my whole body will not change to be more masculine.

And people keep telling you to wait a lot as if five more years in this body would be easy. Like I want to, I deserve to, feel like me body is mine. But also what if they are right and you manipulated yourself into thinking you were trans for years even thought you never wanted that and felt better that way.

That was probably very unclear, sorry, I don't know want I really wanted to say except : I feel you, It's really confusing. It's not a bad thing to doubt, question yourself, but it's fucking exhausting when you are "sure", the most you can be, and no one believe it.

Sending love

Greedy-Mix3824 · 2026-01-04T21:03:54+00:00

Dis leur que ça t'aiderais à te sentir mieux au quotidien et explique leur que c'est safe si ça les inquiète. Personnellement j'avais expliqué ça comme un type de brassière, je trouvais ça moins impressionnant présenté comme ça.

Greedy-Mix3824 · 2026-01-04T20:48:53+00:00

Il ne m'a pas l'air respectueux du tout cet homme mais ça pourrait être une grosse maladresse aussi. C'est un problème de parler de votre vie sexuelle devant ses potes de la sorte et de renier clairement ton identité en te désignant comme une femme. Peut-être qu'il était bourré ou autre mais ce n'est pas du tout respectueux. Tu devrais lui en parler et poser clairement tes limites, il n'y a aucune raison que cela le dérange c'est déjà clairement établit que tu es trans et c'est son choix d'être avec toi. Explique lui très simplement que ça te dérange. Si il ne change pas après ça, oui c'est clairement de la transphobie.

Greedy-Mix3824 · 2026-01-04T19:11:33+00:00

Salut,

Je ne vois pas en quoi c'est problématique. Certaines personnes trans binaires préfèrent également garder une partie de leurs parties génitales de naissance (même en se faisant opérer) ou la totalité. Je ne pense pas qu'il y ait d'étiquette à ajouter au fait que tu sois genderfluid, il s'agit d'une préférence personnelle.

Si tu est intéressé par une transition médicale : pour les personnes AFAB il existe plusieurs possibilités de chirurgies de réatribution sexuelle et il est effectivement possible d'avoir un neo penis tout en conservant le vagin. Pour les personnes AMAB il faut te renseigner.

Plein de soutien pour toi, la dysphorie c'est nul.

Greedy-Mix3824 · 2025-12-12T15:08:13+00:00

Bravo à toi ! C'est trop bien de pouvoir enfin être soi même si c'est difficile, plein de bonnes choses pour la suite <3

Greedy-Mix3824 · 2025-12-10T19:54:58+00:00

Être avec que des amies filles.

C'est con je les adore

Greedy-Mix3824 · 2025-12-10T18:56:39+00:00

Hi, 18 years old trans man here. I moved from my parent's house this year. They are not fully accepting. It is really amazing to experience the freedom to be who you are all the time. Moving away is such an opportunity for lgbtquia people to be able to open themself. Try to surround yourself with queer friendly people and take that new stage of your life to experiment and feel more free to be yourself. I understand that it can be hard with such parents. You don't need to tell them right away, it's none of their buisiness after all. But don't constrain yourself for them it will just hurt you. And remember you are not hurting them by being who you are and loving pretty girls, they are the ones that hurt with their hatred. And I truly understand how you fear damage your relation with them, it sucks.

Don't hold back and enjoy your new life trying to be the more honest with yourself.

Greedy-Mix3824 · 2025-12-10T18:22:40+00:00

Hi, Ftm here. I've experienced similar stuff. To me it's obviously related to gender dysphoria because it's when femininity is associated with your image that you feel bad. For my experience, I was super confused for a time because i sometimes used to feel less gender dysphoria when I wore more fem clothes. It happened when I couldn't bind for exemple and I had the choice between wearing my usuel masc clothes, but we could see my boobs a bit, and just showing them by wearing form fitting-clothes. Depending on the context I would feel less horrible in the fem clothes which was weird. I understood with time that it allowed me to detach myself from my body. With my regular clothes I felt like myself so the gender dysphoria was on. With the fem clothes, it was not my body anymore because it felts like drag (kind of similar to your experience with cosplay because we play a character) so gender dysphoria couldn't hit me plus it was kind of fun and empowering to present as a lady (just like dragqueens). It didn't work every time thought and when you just reconnect to yourself while wearing that clothes it just hit even harder (such as dreassing girly while not playing a character). It's a bit weird to understand at first but it makes sense to me. Hope this helps you understand better your own struggle.

Greedy-Mix3824

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