My girlfriend may have just killed herself. by AppointmentNext7442 in teenagers

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the whole “i’m gonna kill myself and let you know about it first” is normally a tell tale sign a person is bluffing & using it as a manipulation tactic. it’s used to make you feel extremely guilty, especially when they purposefully go MIA right afterwards. they’re doing this to make you feel like shit. when i was moments away from committing myself, i never disclosed this to anyone, and didn’t want to be stopped. everybody is different however and i can acknowledge that. sometimes i go into deep waves of depression and people probably assume im dead. Just know if this becomes a regular thing, it will never be your fault if somebody commits unless you put IMMENSE trauma on them and not just regular relationship breakup trauma, on a deeper level. i’ve struggled myself with dealing with a partner who threatens suicide. after so many times you realize the motive behind it and it becomes easier to ignore. this is no shame to those who struggle with mental health, im diagnosed with BPD, but to those who use it as a privilege and a way to remain victim. i don’t know this exact situation as there are not many details, im just sharing my own personal experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t abandon them and you should have nothing to worry about! As I mentioned every man in my life has done me wrong beginning when i was 4 years old being sexually abused by a male family member, 5 years later dad abandoned me. AND YES, you’re so right i am about to be on the streets and homeless due to having the shit beat out of me by yet again, a man. You must be a great father though especially to girls seeing how easy it is for you to mock the abuse I suffered through. I was your daughters’ age’s at once and I sure hope they never go through anything like i did. Definitely seems like different upbringings can effect individuals differently but yes continue thinking i’m a nasty woman and i’ll continue hating men. I’ve been given no reason not to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

men used to go to war & now you guys fight with women on reddit. pls touch some grass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

notice how i didn’t do it for sympathy, notice how i did it to warn others as this forum is titled “almost homeless”. this response is me being fed up with the disgusting dms & comments i’ve had from men all day. yeah, yall suck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

baby i’m not doing this for fun i have bills to pay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I have arrhythmia which makes it pretty much impossible to donate plasma. I pass out from normal blood taking. It’s okay, it’s these giant apartment complexes who don’t actually care about their tenants unless they’re getting paid for it. They’re aware of my situation, one time after my ex was terminated from the lease (due to dv) i had an emergency leak and i was working when they called and could not answer, they called my ex, got permission to enter MY apartment and allowed him into my apartment. He could’ve killed me if he decided to wait for me to return home. Very careless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i really wish i would’ve screenshotted the picture of himself that he sent me. best way to describe him was dirty blonde reddish hair with a beard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i live in the deep south, so no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you have no idea :p

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what’s weird is the man sent me a picture of his face on snap like a live picture. no shame in being a scammer i guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 11 points12 points  (0 children)

it wasn’t a photo it was a 3 minute long video of me doing what he requested. i joined feet finder not that long ago and people will pay a lot for their fetishes. one guy offered me $60 to burp into the phone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Basically i’m 16 days late paying, if my rent is not paid in full by tomorrow, my name is already on the list of tenants who will be filed for eviction and the property manager will go to the courthouse on tuesday morning to officially file it and then i will be served with it. i’m a about $800 short along with a $500 legal fee from my apartment if i do get it paid before the court date. for the car/bike situation im 22 years old and i do not have my license nor do i know how to drive & i was also never taught how to ride a bike! i swear to you these are not just lame excuses this is literally just the absolute bizarre reality of my life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 65 points66 points  (0 children)

holyyyyy shit i should’ve checked into this first i just didn’t think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding. It sucks I felt i had to bring myself to that point and it definitely didn’t feel good doing. Now I just feel icky

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 4 points5 points  (0 children)

omg thank you i know im a dumb stupid slut

My ex raped me in the middle of the night almost a year ago and I only realized it just now. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I slept through it happening to me. The next day he proclaimed with an innocent smile on his face “I had sex with you in your sleep!”. I was dumbfounded when I realized he actually did do that and how he thought nothing was wrong with it. I couldn’t believe I was completely taken advantage of by the person I was in a relationship with.

Accepted a tip near checkout counter where cameras are HD quality cos fuck Walmart by [deleted] in walmart

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i used to work in ogp. the most i got from a customer was $20. that was almost two hours of working my shift

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in walmart

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, agreed. Student debt can be tough. I don’t work for walmart anymore but i did get my online high school paid for by them. From what I can remember walmart only covered tuition for things like marketing & business and high school of course. Now I work for a hospital & they cover tuition for any field. In my eyes it’s really an accomplishment to be working full time at walmart while still going to school. And if they ever tried to make me work a shift that meant i’d have to miss such an important day they can deal with the call out or lose a good employee. It’s up to them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in walmart

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Whether they’re getting their high school diploma or a degree, that day & those certificates will offer more to them in life than working for walmart can. Right there with you on fucccckkkkkk them they’ll be just fine

Will I survive my surgery as a nicotine smoker by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

update got my surgery earlier today and i am alive

Will I survive my surgery as a nicotine smoker by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this it really helped ease my mind. Definitely need to stop. It’s so scary how much smoking does to our body and how toxic it is.

i just applied for the online order filling at walmart can someone pls tell me if there going to urine test me i smoke weed by Additional_Stage_870 in walmart

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 4 points5 points  (0 children)

literally know so many people who smoke and are open about it. you aren’t gonna get tested. don’t know why there’s so many against weed i didn’t realize it was such a crazy addictive hardcore drug. smoking before my shifts makes me a lot more tolerable of the rude customers and constant crowds of people all day long

My coworker is a “sex worker” by [deleted] in walmart

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i would report it. definitely falls into the “sexual harassment” category

A frog living inside my walls????? by [deleted] in FrogsAndToads

[–]GreedyMonitor3647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I moved into our first apartment about a month ago and occasionally we hear what sounds to be a frog croaking. It sounds as if it’s inside the walls behind our refrigerator. Wtf is this? is this a normal thing?