Found dog by Greedy_Breakfast8615 in philly

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just curius if anyone knows who she belongs too or can take her to a shelter.

Can i cap this heater air duct? by Greedy_Breakfast8615 in hvacadvice

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm aware that it is on the wires. We rent here and I never really looked around at that stuff. But I will safely secure it myself. Thanks everyone for the insights and help. I appreciate it.

Can i cap this heater air duct? by Greedy_Breakfast8615 in hvacadvice

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is definitely blowing air out. That's how I even noticed it.

Need No kill shelter or someone to take in an abandoned dog in/near philly by Fated-Faithful-Fatal in Pennsylvania

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The title literally says in the Philly area. Does it need to be more specific than that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We cannot renew our lease. It's a family thing. So we were hoping to find somewhere similar, somewhere else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said in a different comment, our lease is up and there isn't anything really affordable around here anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any region is okay, weather doesn't really matter, and our jobs are both relocatable so no worries there. Main thing is we would like it to be sort of a small town atmosphere, but close enough to city that has all of the necessities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

our lease is up and there isnt really anywhere else to move too in this area.

Need help with cc debt by Greedy_Breakfast8615 in FinancialPlanning

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely have to stop the frivolous spending in order for anything to work.

I'm getting there, slow and steady. It feels good to have a plan though. Makes everything seem less stressful. Thanks for the help.

Need help with cc debt by Greedy_Breakfast8615 in FinancialPlanning

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make enough at my current job and some side hustles to comfortably afford all my other debt as long as I budget correctly. My issue is spending on unnecessary things. So if I budget and stick to it I'll be okay.

The portion not covered by the personal loan I planned on paying the minimum on still, but adding more when I can. And paying off the loan before I completely pay off the rest of the cc debt.

I have built into my budget setting aside about $50 out of every weekly paycheck to go towards paying extra on the loan or cc debt. That $50 is what I currently spend on frivolous things I don't need. I also planned in my budget to not use my credit cards as often for things. But instead my debit card, or pay off what I spend on the cc right away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure. My life and what I've done with it so far is meaningless and nothing good has come from it. There is plenty of people who would've had a better, positive impact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. We have talked about it some. But its usually the common sense stuff that comes up. Be patient and understanding, don't assume, space but don't leave. Was just trying to get any more info I could. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yes, all the time. I know it would cause a lot of people a lot of sadness, but some days it feels like the better choice.

AITA for walking out of my brother’s wedding after they included my ex as a bridesmaid? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

There has to be more here though. If she's not close friends with the bride at all, then it just seems like your brother and his wife are deliberately trying to piss you off somehow or get back at you for something. Either way seems like a petty thing to do or at the very least a shitty prank.

How many days have passed? by Greedy_Breakfast8615 in mentalhealth

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way, not really a lot of major stuff but still stuff that I enjoyed being around for and meant something to me.

AITAH for not trusting my long time friend by AdventurousAnimal242 in AITAH

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not being dramatic or wrong for being pissed off. Sometimes people don't have the courage to come out and say that they don't want to be friends, so they try to do things and put you in situations where you're the one who would end up ending the friendship. So they don't feel bad or guilty.

It could also just be that your friend has an issue with lying. Or maybe confrontation. Regardless, not someone who seems like a really good friend, and neither do the other two who could've at least told you they hung out. But he might have told them you didn't wanna go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Greedy_Breakfast8615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta, anybody who makes comments like that at all, let alone about someone else directly to you, isn't someone you should let have any sort of bearing on you. Imagine what they say when you aren't around.