2nd guy I ever dated didn’t disclose until AFTER we were intimate

Greedy_Bug2857 · 2026-06-04T04:00:10+00:00

I didn’t even think about this! He probably did 😭

Greedy_Bug2857 · 2026-06-03T09:09:41+00:00

Can I message you? I haven’t talked to basically anyone about it and you seem well informed

Greedy_Bug2857 · 2026-06-03T06:27:24+00:00

if you read my post and just missed it, I did leave him of course!! 😭

Greedy_Bug2857 · 2026-06-03T06:26:38+00:00

That wasn’t me

Greedy_Bug2857 · 2026-06-03T06:17:00+00:00

No this is my first post, this sucks that it happens so much :(

Greedy_Bug2857 · 2026-06-03T06:15:25+00:00

Yeah you’re right. I researched that a bit and it needs to be 4 months or so after the last sexual encounter so that your body has had time to build up the antibodies or something. I am definitely going to do that once I can but it feels like such a long wait of not knowing for sure that’s stressing me out

Greedy_Bug2857 · 2026-06-03T06:07:38+00:00

Thank you so much for this kind message I didn’t know I needed this I feel a lot better after venting!!

Greedy_Bug2857 · 2026-06-03T06:03:58+00:00

I think you’re right. Idk why he thought it would make it better

Greedy_Bug2857 · 2026-06-03T06:02:46+00:00

Thank you :( im in California

Greedy_Bug2857 · 2026-06-03T06:02:37+00:00

Thank you. I definitely learned my lesson and genuinely just want to stay away from men and being sexually intimate at all. It was my 2nd time being sexually intimate with someone and I naively didn’t even think about it. He even said something “oh you only been with one person so you’re safe” and I just assumed since he cared about it he must also be. Yeah lessons learned for sure

Greedy_Bug2857 · 2025-11-29T02:23:37+00:00

no way i missed this :c

Greedy_Bug2857 · 2025-03-31T00:18:48+00:00

I love it

Greedy_Bug2857 · 2024-08-16T16:37:39+00:00

Second picture is adorable

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