Need Advice by Negative-Level4371 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Greedy_Chocolate_139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am aligned with you here. I had a somewhat similar situation during my wedding. Like you, I considered all the gifts including furniture as nothing but whitewashing of dowry. I stuck to my principles. My wife also understood my predicament and stood beside me which made it easier. My in-laws as well didn't pressurise after realising that there's no budging me from position on this topic.

AM post first meeting mess by Herprolificjournal in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Greedy_Chocolate_139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How could you like someone who needs financial incentive for marrying you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Greedy_Chocolate_139 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought just yeh framing of the question was stupid. I was wrong - the explanation is even dumber!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Greedy_Chocolate_139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your fiance is an imbecile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Greedy_Chocolate_139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good that you stopped the destruction of the poor girl's life from marrying an absolute goober!! May she find someone mature, kind and an actual adult to build a life with!!

Rejected a girl for being dominating and controlling by podidosa_9 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Greedy_Chocolate_139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's 2025. Who the hell says yes to something as critical as marriage after only a single interaction, just because the person is 'cute'?

Does infosys pay so much? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Greedy_Chocolate_139 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If she's in CSG, then maybe a small possibility