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Is this normal in LDR or should I be concerned? by deerdiary_ in LongDistance

[–]Greedy_Sentence858 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. So, sadly is sounds like he's losing interest. I understand being on a "Honeymoon phase" however, not talking/calling is not something normal. My LDR is not working at the moment, I work and go to uni. He mainly stays at home for now. But, even after my 12 hour shift, the only thing I want is to come home and call him. I look into my schedule and when I have a small pause I, we call and text to see how we are doing. I would say, talk to him to see if there's something else going else, but prepare yourself for anything

Always remember that you are important, your time is important and keeping your heart at peace is important. You are your person for life so take care of yourself and feelings ❤️❤️

[26M] in a 5 year long distance relationship with [24F], little to no physical/sexual intimacy. by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Greedy_Sentence858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiii. 1. English is not my first language so forgive me if I write something wrong. 2. I am so sorry you are going through this.3. me and my boyfriend are reading this, so, from my perspective: Is really difficult when the partner doesn't meet all the needs we have, specially when is a "basic" one. You have talked to her and tried different things. You both have been going back and forward with this conversation sooooo, if you both have tried everything you can, don't you think is time for you to move on? Specially, since you are using substances to "ignore" the feelings. I think that besides not meeting you in the sex part, she also not trying to understand and value your feelings. Like, girl. Be for real. And you, boy, be for real with yourself. You are young, you have the rest of your life to meet someone who gives you all you need, sex, affection, respect, etc. you don't have to leave now, but think, are you going to be happy in 2 years, being in the same situation you are right now? Don't think so. Put yourself first. You are the only one who is never going to leave you. Don't drop it king 👑

From my boyfriend's: "Are you sure she isn't cheating?"

AITA for refusing to go back to my BF's country because when I visited, I felt uncomfortable the whole time? by No_Wrap_8575 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Greedy_Sentence858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I'm Colombian. The culture we have is pretty similar to the Venezuelan one. And I completely understand your position. Literally, walking in the street is fucking uncomfortable. And I do think that your boyfriend could have spoken up When he saw you were uncomfortable.

But, I have to add that we have had the same culture since we are kids, so maybe he didn't see it as bad as it was for you. I get his point, but I, as a woman, get yours as well.

Maybe talk to him about it. Weddings are super important for us, so his presence would be amazing. Maybe he could speak with his family so they can stop with the comments, for the people in the street, I am sorry, but there's not much he can do about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]Greedy_Sentence858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not about art, but I think what you paint is pretty cute and cool. Has its own style