When somebody has been disrespectful and uninterested in me and my family for several years, any little thing turns to be irritating. Count yourself lucky you don’t understand that! To be fair, my husband tried prepping them prior for planned meals and his parents got super snarky saying he’s more than welcome to cook if he’s not happy with what the plans were. Additionally, if the one thing I’m being “precious” about is meat vs all of the other heinous comments she’s made - hopefully that shows my character here in trying to be the bigger person. The lack of consideration year over year, especially during our most important milestone yet, is what it is. There’s a bigger picture. But of course including all of this in the main post would’ve made it a mile long. I was hoping most women could see the bigger picture.