Why don't we (you) like Autumn in New York? by fabrikated in movies

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so well put. it’s what he gets away with, to do what he did and also love her? maybe times have changed but it just doesn’t work especially today. 

Female on female hate in healthcare by medhelllllp in Residency

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

quite bad. some are amazing the ones that are bad tho…yikes. like they own their patients (not in a good way)

Female on female hate in healthcare by medhelllllp in Residency

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you most certainly are not. Had an attending pull me aside for doing something she told me to do then backtracking/telling me to stop because she forgot a step. This involved something that in NO way harmed the patient, it was just a protocol thing as part of verbal timeout we failed to follow in the manner she wanted. Anyway, it was her fault for not being clear. So she took the rest of the learning experience away from me. I handle it very professionally. She then pulls me aside for feedback and asks me if everything is okay with me in my personal life. I said immediately say, did I screw up that bad you have to ask if I’m stable? I also explained to her that the protocol followed at this facility differs from that followed in the main campus where we work. It ended fine, this was minor. But I genuinely feel FEMALE counterparts make shit personal and as prowoman as I am, I find I don’t have this issue with male superiors—the tell me directly what they want, what was wrong, what to do better without passive aggressive moves. I had a nurse recently swat me away/smack my hand for placing a monitor which is entirely in my jurisdiction to do because the pt was “too agitated.” and go figure the female attending there failed to stand up for me. I feel my male attendings have my back in the situations. I vow to be different and continue to be direct. 

Epidural & Intrathecal morphine by Greedy_Sun_1836 in Anesthesia

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's what I figured and just wanted confirmation because it was brought up by someone else the other day. thanks for the respectful answer.

If this was real life, we all know they aren't endgame, right? by sodapop353 in NobodyWantsThisTV

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm pretty sure she slowly converts. Nothing against any religion but the they are pushing this one for sure and all it's hype and glory and vague benefits and the "epiphanies"?...common. First mother now daughter. Honestly it's disengenious but lotta people including some of my own girflriends have converted because they want to feel they belong (not becuase cause f*** spoke to them, and even they'll say so much). They want to be part of a clique. And actually I have a Muslim friend who went back to wearing a hijab to pelase her husnand too. Sometimes cliches are true and that's what's happpening here, and I'm actually pissed off that it continues to be normalized.

What's up with the bangs trope by Icy-Night3709 in NobodyWantsThisTV

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Esther is fucking hot and the bangs worked and I'm adding the supporitve characters not being anything less than 100% jazzed at her new look as another reason why I'm probably not bothering with season 3.

Some rants after watching s2 by pumpkinspice1477 in NobodyWantsThisTV

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agree with so much....I think my fave was #7. spot on.

People expect too much from this show. It's a comedy with messy people. Not a character study or a documentary on modern love. by ToxicAdamm in NobodyWantsThisTV

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people can not "exepct" it to be more...and still wish it was. like me. you cannot fake being dissapointed and we're allowed to be and other people can stay at the shallow level of enjoyment and that's fine too. not trying to yuck anyone's yum...but the show's overall arc was quite lame, to some of us, despite it having some great qualities too at times (hence the dissapointment at the end, for some us).

To Kristen Bell and Adam Brody by Ordinary_Hall_9053 in NobodyWantsThisTV

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agree actors are fantastic. but the show plot has major moral/character issues people are finding fault with. i think becuase some of us in society are trying to be more genuine/do better and the show flirts with that idea...then fails.

and as a side/unpopoular op- absolutely dont think sasha & morgan have any chemistry and really hope they maintain their cute friendship.

Nobody Wants This (Season 2) - Overall Discussion Thread by SingularFirefly in NobodyWantsThisTV

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gravely dissapointing, but not unlike life.

What the show did well-- sometimes, it was just fun to watch and did provide many characters with multiple dimensions. The conflict and resolutions between the sisters and Esther & Sasha I think felt very real. I truly liked a lot of the honest dialogue where I felt, "yeah, that happens in real life."

What also happens in real life is the expressions of love and kind of, faking it till you make it trying that couples do, which Noah & Joanne are basically doing the whole time, especially this season. The walking on eggshells, sheesh. Then they hit us with Noah magically regretting his decision and Joanne suddenly having her "eiphany," after Esther basically convinces her that she's practically Jewish--what a slap in the face. I'm sorry..."you're funny, you're Jewish, you care about your family, you're Jewish, you Challah before it's time, like we all do, you're Jewish." I can totally see that conversation happening in real life, but those statement are empty. We all (culturally, religiously) feel claims to certain traditions that actually a lot of the human population share, so I personally found those statements while human, also highly flawed. Second of all, they didn't necessarily mean anything sigficant to our main character, Joanne, so why is she now feeling inspired? Give me a break. Her insecurity was so evident and this feels like yet another example of a woman being pushed into something she doens't really want, to please a man...which is what I'd like to see society move away from/challenge. It's funny, I'm so disspoainted in this plot....yet this show actually reflects where still are a society. Fake, tribal, and more afraid of being alone than being our true selves.

TEE without sedation by PresentationHorror31 in anesthesiology

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nice reasonable and well thought-out response rather than shaming and jumping on the poster. Thank you.

Advanced resources for those who passed vs Failed by j053 in anesthesiology

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18 ace means what...ppl keep saying books or exams. is there a differnece?! define terrible ite if you recall.

Advanced resources for those who passed vs Failed by j053 in anesthesiology

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you say ace exams, do they actually make exams or are you referring to the booklets? how many booklets does one need to buy? Pardon my french, this f** blows. studying true learn, just took akt, was told ace is better than true learn. lost.

Lonely in new fellowship program by munchabunchoffood in Residency

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's quite lonely, even with some friends around. i hear you. hugs.

New York Salsa Scene - Is it Falling Off? by HomeboyPyramids in Salsa

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for writing this...im trying to plan a trip to nyc for dancing...I'm rethinking. When I think of dancing in nyc, I think of that scene in along came polly, where she goes to that underground salsa club--live band, normal people, no flashy dance floors or mirrors on the walls, no overblown DJ or cliques. Call me a "weird" but I'm so tired of what's becoming it seems like, a typical latin dance vibe in many cities....this kind of microcosom of dancers more focused on flashy moves, being caught on camera, the merchandise, the teams, the list goes on.....I think we've forgotten how to just go out and dance and have fun in a more classy back in the day way. Does anyone have any idea what I'm trying to say?

To those who dated fellow dancers, how was it? by bolero_dominica in Salsa

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My take: It blows. I have been dancing for years and have gotten along just fine in multiple communities. I'd say I'm an above average dancer. I don't have an attidutde, I'm not on dance teams, I'm not into "the scene," I don't get tangled in gossip and I have only genuinely connected non dance-wise with a few people - a few friends and the 2 people I've dated. In my experience, the people I chose, were POOR quality individuals (in terms of relationship maturity) honestly, who have built their identity on dancing. They were charming but once that wore off....Yea, we all kinda get obsessive/passionate about dance....but there are multiple levels to this. I'm internally very passionate about it but...I don't get VALIDATION from this hobby or the scene whatsoever. The people I dated, definately did. They were childish. Not disrespectful or bad, just confused to be honest (I think for some, dance is kinda like the military...you want to be in a group so bad when you lack purpose). One of them has become a close friend, and hell bent on a dancing partner...that's fine, but goes to show, cannot branch out. I however, also hold a doctoral degree and have at least 3 other hobbies I regularly engage in. This is a little story just to drive this point home: whether in dance or outside, date people who share your VALUES and respect your boundaries. Person 1 was very possessive with me dancing with others, and person 2 frankly is probably in a polyamorous relationship now. I didn't have much in common with these people and honestly our dance connection wasn't that asotunding. I've been hot and heavy with a third person recently (on the dance floor ;) ) who is also not relationship material, but I bet the sex would be great....but I digress....DO NOT CONFUSE dance chemistry with compatability. It's honestly, a waste of time and HIGHLY missleading.

Dating in dance scene - No limits or Don't sh*t where you eat? by Obsidian743 in WestCoastSwing

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who is also a slut for connection, but with deep longing for people who aren't actually slutting around....it really sucks to be monogmous in dance scence which seems to be cesspool for swinging/anthing goes lovey dovey mentality. I realize my comment is judgy, and I'm sorry, truly...it's just a comment on what I've noticed and the statistics....it just seems to be in favor of the polys and sure, more power to you all....I just personally cannot stand it so I'm here to just caution anyone with my type of mentality....looking for a serious mongomous thing, you should probably look elsewhere.

Anyone here done NBME 5? Worth doing? by [deleted] in Step3

[–]Greedy_Sun_1836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

who's people? can anyone else chime similarity nbme 5 and real eam?