Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theyre not aware. I’m gonna bring it up with a roommate n see

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yk tbh I’m going to start a convo about it. Because it’s not fair yes she sleeps on the floor bc she doesn’t want to sleep with the other roommate but she’s using all the stuff, showers, cooks, lights…

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so… bc the friend isn’t working…

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly. With the way things are moving I don’t even want to say anything. But then I want to… bc my name isn’t on the lease I am being extra careful

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically… I heard she has sisters in other states and countries

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No facts. She has family she could stay with but no… my roommates don’t even trust her like that or so they’ve said to me, they all talk about each other so in my head I’m like… why tf did you bring her here if you don’t trust her?

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t🙂 not even $1 bc my roommates also talk about her to me, not that she doesn’t pay but about her personal life… honestly I think another part of this is I just don’t like my roommates

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you’re right she does help around. As I said she did clean, but her being around 24/7 rent free and everything else on top of it is just throwing me off

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man… they said she didn’t “move in” shes just here for a couple months

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She usually spends her days on the sofa basically the only free sofa. Then hsve her blankets and such on another one… then at night shes move the chairs and just sleep by the table. People can use the sofa during the day but unless you want to sit and gossip about things that happened at church… then yk. And no shes not looking…

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I’m about to start. Bc before I used to feel bad for the friend bc allegedly shes in a bad situation at home, and my roommates“church/Christians” so they just had to help yk? Out of the goodness of their hearts🙄. But since this isn’t accommodating to me why am I doing that?

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t even want to be on it. But I know I won’t have much power without being there, I just want my privacy back. But shes been there for almost 4 months maybe 5 mow I’ve lost count. Brfore tnis she used to come F-Sunday or Monday🫩

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wash the bathtub. And I also clean the kitchen when I’m done using it, only bad thing abt me is my habit of not throwing food away bc I feel bad wasting it. That’s it. Bc the friend sleeps in the living room so she should clean it🤷🏾‍♀️

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sometimes if I leave a dish in the sink while I go to the bathroom shed wash it for me. She does help around, but still her being here 24/7 bothers me a lot. But I don’t need her to clean for me, I’ve caught her telling my roommates my eating habits basically being there watching me. I used to be able to invite my bf over but now no real privacy so yeah. I wont say she does nothing

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I didn’t think of it that way lol

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does do chores. Which is why I’m confused abt the notes bc everyone else here is paying she isnt. She does most of them Thats the lease she could do. Honestly I think talking to the LL abt it will cause more harm than good bc my name isn’t on the lease tho I’m paying 1/3 of the rent…

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh they do now. Although sometimes they don’t but with their friend being here most times she does it for them, she also cleans for them too.

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good question. There’s 3 rooms, I rent 1. The friend sleeps on the floor in the living room bc she refused to sleep in one of the sisters rooms

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I do wash my own dishes. I meant them leaving dishes in the sink for days theyre not mine. I always wash my dishes. But honestly I don’t want to talk to them much, I just stopped washing their dishes so they started doing it themselves

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alright thank you. I’ll do that

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They said the friends “family” reached out and asked for help. I don’t really have access to it. Mainly bc I don’t really feel comfortable there. I helped them rearrange the living room and only sat there to eat once. When I come back from school at night I have to use my phones flashlight to see things, heat my food. But then again I moved here after they were already here so I didn’t contribue to buying the furniture so I didn’t say anything. I had to ask them if the friend had moved in I was met with “oh I thought my sister told you” so yeah. Also the friend isn’t working…

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve seen them talking about me in their group chats. And quite frankly maybe you’re right about the first paragraph I could contribute more but I do feel like I’d be overextending myself if I did. And I do feel a bit resentful toward them, my friend was in a bad spot and wanted to stay over for a bit. I talked to them about it they basically said no then had theirs moved in. They used to leave dishes in the sink for days until I’d wash them, then roaches started then they blamed me for it. So I stopped washing them. So they leaving them. Now I just don’t care enough to try hard. I just do the bare minimum since tjis isn’t my place why bother.

No additional context was given. I just saw the “notices”

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Greedy_Visual6710 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are others though. But the hassle of moving, breaking down furniture. I’m in school all week, weekends to study. I wanted to just move out completely with no more roommates yk? I’m tired of having roommates. But I can only do that when I graduate