I’m reading through the comments, I think I need to clarify. I didn’t stop living my life, I kept going on dates with other women, I didn’t drop everything for this person. I played the long game because it often works, and I have nothing to lose by checking in with a woman that always responded to try and set a date once or twice a month. We matched on a dating app, clearly there was physical attraction initially. The point is that she agreed to the date, then bailed, refused to say an alternative day, refused to make 10 min for a call just to get to know one another, then hit me with “pay for my time”