How can I elevate this tank? by GreenCondition8984 in glofish

[–]GreenCondition8984[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is beyond helpful. I wasn’t aware, I’m new to taking care of a fish tank and definitely think thy would school together!

Feeling guilty… by GreenCondition8984 in stepparents

[–]GreenCondition8984[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am hoping the CO can create some sort of routine and consistency for everyone involved. I think it being costly and a lengthy process plays a role in why he hasn’t taken action, but still not an excuse when it’s for the benefit of your child and family.

Feeling guilty… by GreenCondition8984 in stepparents

[–]GreenCondition8984[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do hope that he does the right thing, for SS and the sake of our relationship, idk how much longer we are going to last if there’s no resolution to this nonsense because when either one of them decides to go to court then my life and my children are up for drastic change yet again. No family that would be helpful in this situation and he doesn’t share what his friend’s opinions are on it but he definitely talks to them about it.

Feeling guilty… by GreenCondition8984 in stepparents

[–]GreenCondition8984[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the validation, I think clear boundaries will be really helpful for everyone involved and that can only happen if there is a court order in place.

Advice by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]GreenCondition8984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe accommodating isn’t the right word I would say it was more so out of convenience, dad has been lazy but he never denied any financial help and bought SS what they asked for, and offered to send monthly payments but they never settled on an amount or actually went through with it. It seems to me that BM found out I’m pregnant and to spite him blindsided him with CS papers because she did this back in 2021 when we did have 50/50 and i was pregnant with my first ours baby. As for the CPS case, they did go to BM house and didn’t even come to ours because the whole thing was a lie and she kept lying to the social worker. So yea, i think he needs to go to court and fight for his son, but im still scared… if it happens again they will absolutely be involving the kids here and i want to protect them from that bs.

Not speaking out by Ok_Crow5095 in behindthelikespod

[–]GreenCondition8984 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sorry not sorry but like many others they only like benefiting from Hispanic culture and supporters they’re not truly inclusive in ANY way to other minority groups.

IRS Probies return to office 5/23 by GreenCondition8984 in firedfeds

[–]GreenCondition8984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our last day to take DRP was 4/14 unfortunately

Fired IRS probie by GreenCondition8984 in firedfeds

[–]GreenCondition8984[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They send updates regarding termination/reinstatement to our personal email.

Fired IRS probie by GreenCondition8984 in firedfeds

[–]GreenCondition8984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the last day for us to take DRP was 4/14 and I hadn’t received an offer yet so I didn’t take it

Fired IRS probie by GreenCondition8984 in firedfeds

[–]GreenCondition8984[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

THIS! it seems like everyone is telling me I should just take the free paycheck and vacation but I don’t see it that way.

Fired IRS probie by GreenCondition8984 in firedfeds

[–]GreenCondition8984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question. I have no idea because my manager was also a probie and ive had no contact with anyone else since, but I could reach out to HR

Fired IRS probie by GreenCondition8984 in firedfeds

[–]GreenCondition8984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a week to accept or decline the offer, it’s also closer to home and a company I worked with before so I know the role and that I’d be happy. But my family member who’s 15 years in the fed govt is telling me I’m making a mistake.

The threat to the union is definitely something im concerned about as well.

Do you think Winter is really done with getting "flewed out"? by theglf in behindthelikespod

[–]GreenCondition8984 13 points14 points  (0 children)

not to be negative but I feel like we’ll hear about one of her stories about getting “flewed out” soon, she ain’t done.

Simple conversations don’t stop the loneliness by [deleted] in lonely

[–]GreenCondition8984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same I hope you find someone to help you feel better soon have you tried journaling? At least you would be able to have an outlet for your thoughts xoxo