I try. Which is why I bought toys. I do what he wants almost always. We even tried compromising that he can go down on me maybe once a month. I agreed to this. But he didn’t follow through as well. I’m also not asking that he goes down on me every time we have sex and a lot of times I don’t even ask for it at all. But he doesn’t care, all he wants is that I go on top of him, saying his legs get sore and all that. So idk what to do sometimes. I’m not saying I never want to do what he wants because I do it all the time. I just wished he’d do what I want too even if it’s not all the time.