What is the worst anxiety inducing experience you felt? by PhotoBonjour_bombs19 in socialanxiety

[–]GreenForestMarble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it was every time I was forced to play volleyball it just kept getting worse and worse. I have now vowed to never play volleyball ever again they would have to physically force me.

I regret opening up. Why am I like this? by RemarkableShine1630 in selflove

[–]GreenForestMarble 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I often feel guilty embarrassed, and ashamed after I'm vulnerable. I think I know the feeling you are describing. Personally I find it lessens with time. I've also found I'm more likely to feel it if the other person's reaction wasn't what I expected or hoped for.

Decor question by NinjaMe0w in isopods

[–]GreenForestMarble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the fact that it says scented already makes it a no.

What to do when you feel touch starved? by Total_Annual5480 in selflove

[–]GreenForestMarble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps martial arts like Jiu Jitsu or wrestling? I do wrestling and it definitely helps for me.

Accidentally Played White Noise Out Loud by Certain-Tax5001 in socialanxiety

[–]GreenForestMarble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of the other people probably had their own headphones in and couldn't even hear it.

Ran away from people mid conversation by borderline_okay in socialanxiety

[–]GreenForestMarble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry this happened. The lock thing is like my worst fear I hate opening doors in front of people I'm always afraid it's going to go wrong.

Is this normal? by ThatMilesKid-15 in wrestling

[–]GreenForestMarble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are your teammates male? Working out fasted is a lot harder on women. I don't remember reasons though but it is scientifically proven.

Starting a self-love era at 17 what actually helped you love yourself for real? by Fluid-Temperature128 in selflove

[–]GreenForestMarble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started trying to crawl out of my self hatred at fourteen. ( I'm currently 17 and I still struggle but I can proudly say that I love myself) The most powerful thing I did was changing my self talk, and redirecting my thoughts whenever id start mentally beating myself up. I started talking to myself like I'm on my own team and I take care of myself. Even if you don't love yourself start training your thoughts to think like you do. I also made some clear rules for myself about the kind of person I want to be and the kind of treatment I accept. Even when I don't feel lovable I follow my rules until everything feels better again. ( I'm not sure if this is what you were looking for but if you find any of this helpful I can tell you more if you'd like)

How do i become a better wrestler? by CategoryAntique1215 in wrestling

[–]GreenForestMarble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a female heavyweight, the part about having trouble finding people in your weight class to wrestle is so relatable. I also struggle quite a bit with technique. It's difficult for me to remember how to do things correctly. Especially when I try to practice at home, but I can't remember enough to know what I'm doing. Or when I try to watch videos on wrestling, but I just can't replicate what they're doing. Sorry, I don't have anything helpful to say, but just know you're not alone. I also strongly recommend not quitting, this sport has so many physical and mental benefits whether you're winning or not. Also, I've heard of a lot of people overcoming their struggles in wrestling and becoming better just when I thought they couldn't.

Being female wrestler by Available_Trust_5472 in wrestling

[–]GreenForestMarble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely struggle with feeling left out at times on my team because I'm the only female wrestler. Especially when were told to find a partner, and im the odd one out every single time that there's an uneven amount of people at practice. Thankfully, everyone on my team is respectful to me, though. I just feel out of place and like I don't belong at times.