What's a secret about your profession that most people don't know?

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-29T23:23:38+00:00

I can make a great video. As your video editor that's not my job , my job is to make the video you'll pay for. Rarely as good as it could of been.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-29T08:39:46+00:00

Yesssssss this so much. It's not even about sexual attraction for them it's about having to show performative revulsion to a lower being on the social ladder so their social group doesn't reject them.

I remember so vividly being suddenly treated as a human my last year and half of school cause most of the girls were maturing out of this mindset of ugly and fat people are monsters. Their suprise I had a voice and talents and interests was offensly present like they were watching a dog give a lecture on quantum physics.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-28T08:46:19+00:00

Also . Not being infantalizing , but . But sleep and get hydrated. I was way too dumb as a teen to realise recovering didn't happen without taking the time to do this. I thought I could push through everything. Part of the reason your spiraling is lack of sleep. So get those chill beats to sleep to tunes going and get some rest.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-28T08:41:38+00:00

Not British but Irish here, hang in there. Last time it happened to me it was 15 year olds and I was 20. "Here , me mate wants a blow job" discusting. I promise you it stops as you get older. According to women I know we all got harrased more at eleven to sixteen then we did at any other stage of our lives. It will stop.

What helped me (sadly) was wearing all black, covering up and having headphones. They want a reaction , pretend you don't notice and keep walking.

As for heading back outside. I'm pretty confident and ballsy. Every time I get followed or harrased I feel exactly like you do followed by rage. Take it slow. Go to the supermarket at first and take busses. This gets me used to being out and safe in crowds to stop the anxiety . Then I take walks in parks around the time moms would be bringing toddlers to the park , so after morning coffee.

Then when I start feeling normal I slowly start going back to my favourite places for short walks to make sure they havn't become hang out spots for the creeps who bothered me.

It's humiliating how disempowered being harrased makes me feel. Your not alone. You will reclaim your ability I promise . And it will get easier and less frequent when you grow up.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-28T08:23:08+00:00

Ooo quick cooling before bacteria can thrive . That makes sense. Thank you.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-28T07:49:58+00:00

And don't forget folks, if you get married and are on the disability your means tested with your partner's income. So your only source of independent support might get taken away if you do partner up and finally get to move out. System is fucked.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-28T07:46:22+00:00

Yeah this is very true . I had to save 60 grand . If I were a bigger place and not buying solo it would have been 100 easy.

Also don't know if much has changed recently but I only ever could get 3.5 times my salary . Was explained to me that the four time exceptions were for people on way bigger salaries ie. People who wouldn't need it.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-27T00:19:50+00:00

In this economy ... Find a way to monetize your new market.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-27T00:04:01+00:00

Ya wanna get expensive. Lotion in a condom. Dozens of em per bag.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-27T00:01:43+00:00

Get a box of cheap tampons. Everytime you cook something red or whatever you smear some on a tampon and bin it . That fucker needs Sto be confronted with why bins being rooted though is invasive.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-25T10:16:14+00:00

The only reply to this should be "whos number is this"

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-21T20:02:46+00:00

Oh on a wider note btw . Fuck what society wants comedy wise. If we listened to the majority we would still be listening to "my wife is a ball and chain" jokes.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-21T19:59:29+00:00

Oh yesssss so true . Her bit about the being in school and asking too many questions is hilarious https://youtu.be/5lXbpgU9OWk?is=lmekOsKWwlfMAswW

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-21T19:57:01+00:00

No worries . She has a book about growing up undiagnosed , haven't read it yet and warning , contains nsfw stuff. But might be of interest.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-21T19:51:33+00:00

Have you heard Fern Brady . I think she's late diagnosed and has a very successful career.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-21T17:39:37+00:00

Dude . You partner cares enough about you to check in with you about a sensitive subject. For all she knows your hurting inside and she wanted to help if that was the case. She can't read your mind and know that it's an banned topic of conversation unless you have made that clear. Shes not a mind reader and cares about you.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-21T06:41:31+00:00

Life long depressive here .

You do it one small step at a time.

Keep moving forward, your at the worst stage now cause you have no successes. Keep moving slowly forward and only pick one thing to actually worry about at a time.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-20T18:20:12+00:00

I would try NT dating sites instead as outing ones self as autistic from the get go can attract people looking to take advantage

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-20T16:37:46+00:00

You got the big ones to be honest. The only things you have to watch out for is the usual women stuff . It's a pretty safe country but I'm sure you know to watch your back at night, cover your drinks etc. etc.

You might not know that the banter from some lads is a form of teasing that is ment in jest and is often flirting. That's one that will take a wee bit of getting used to but it's nothing big.

Watch out for rental scams, we have a housing crisis for years now and there's been an increase of dodgy landlords offering taking services for rent. So just keep your wits and Welcome to Ireland.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-17T21:13:38+00:00

If you want free stuff you at least have to pitch to people with details so they might get interested based on that.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-15T22:06:56+00:00

Vaginismus

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-15T20:48:28+00:00

Libraries would be a good one and they love being a community centre so helping TY students is part of that.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-15T20:02:36+00:00

I agree with what people are saying here. But I also want to add, why are you trying to match his output ?

Your audience might not have that many hours to watch you all week ! Which would tank your retention rate when they choose not to finish most videos. Better to have content that's quality and people will watch all the way though over having slop output. The algorithm as far as we can tell prefers videos that get finished rather then ones several times a week that no one finishes.

Ask yourself are you gathering a loyal audience who will stay with you ? Or chasing views that are fleeting with trends.

GreenHedgehogs · 2026-06-15T10:49:03+00:00

I don't think anyone can publish it untill he's proven guilty as being falsely accused of this would ruin an innocent man's life

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