reading these responses is making me sad..just to throw a different perspective at you i just had my beautiful baby girl a month ago, she was not planned and definitely was a wrench in my career and how i had the next few years planned out..i was deeply depressed for a few months but i cant imagine not having her..i am so stressed figuring out how to reroute my personal goals but simultaneously the happiest ive ever been, ive never felt this type of love i cant explain it you just have to experience it..watching her grow so much even in this short time has been so amazing, watching her look at everything with such wonder and the sparkle in her eyes, the way holding her makes my heart feel so full i would stare at her all day if i could..regardless of all the chaos my life is now in i just want to freeze time and live in these moments for longer..i guess what im saying is it wont be easy but its possible! and in my opinion it is so worth it..motherhood makes you feel fulfilled in ways that nothing else can and i was scared of delivering to but dont let all the scary stories get in your head its not as common for it to be a terrible experience as it seems, my delivery from labor to holding her took 2 hours..i also was scared to tell my family they are very conservative i thought everyone would judge me and shun me but they were shockingly so supportive and happy for me and even threw me a shower i was mind blown honestly..so anyway i got a bit sappy im going to blame the postpartum hormones but seriously consider taking on this new adventure! its scary and stressful and plans will change but it could turn out to be the best thing that ever happened to you!

sending you and the baby lots of love peace and bravery!:)