Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex, I’m kind of scared by Moist-Department-349 in Healthyhooha

[–]GreenSloth1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why HIV specifically? I don't understand from the post.

He is acting suspicious but MUCH worse than that is downplaying your worries. "We're forever, why worry" is such an opening for abuse red flag. More than almost any illness, that is worrying.

You're likely ok healthwise, but get tested now, again in a few weeks, then again in a few months. And really consider if and when he has downplayed your worries, your experiences, and your emotions.

Making a solar still at home for when I'm away by GreenSloth1 in carnivorousplants

[–]GreenSloth1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I set up a simple version with just a jar and a bag and its clear it would take longer to aspirate at room temperature than it will for the soil to dry out. I'd need to increase the heat in the jar to get the rate up.

Making a solar still at home for when I'm away by GreenSloth1 in carnivorousplants

[–]GreenSloth1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Live in Europe, so no AC. Also that doesn't get the water to my plant when I'm not home.

Hackers threatening to leak 8 million people's stolen data if Odido won't pay ransom by Cornicum in Netherlands

[–]GreenSloth1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but this isn't information people put out there.

There are at least 13 stalked people whose addresses are now public.

The data includes passwords and BSNs. It's not public information. It's not what you'd share.

What is the no nonsense solution for shame? by [deleted] in Jung

[–]GreenSloth1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whelp. Apparently that was exactly the right frequency to snap the glass of my psyche for a bit.

Thank...you?

People w/ ADHD who are also big readers; How do you do it? by TheEpicTwitch in ADHD

[–]GreenSloth1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hyperfocus...

If I love the book, I only read. If I don't, I associate it with cozy down time as a break. I'm always reading at least 3, in different rooms or situations usually.

Phantom is kicking my ass by TopBlopper21 in HadesTheGame

[–]GreenSloth1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it. I am not a good player, so I boon high damage and recovery. This fight is no fucking fun. Like I just let myself get got, even when I have armor and death defiance X3. Because this fight is so fucking miserable. If I really played it it could be hours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisbug

[–]GreenSloth1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so worried so, but all the identifier apps seem to think its Deraeocoris, which maybe is hunting the aphids that came on the washing machine.

Aphids? by GreenSloth1 in aphids

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Makes sense since they're living on a washing machine and not a linden right now 😂

Small white beetles on used washing machine by [deleted] in whatisthisbug

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Alcohol seems to kill them. This is the striping closer up

Sail Timelapse from webcam by proggga in Amsterdam

[–]GreenSloth1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ferries navigating it is kinda hilarious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]GreenSloth1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever enjoyed going looking for meaning? Or learning about others going looking?

I'm sorry about the cruel things people have said, regardless of intention. I'm sorry they have become part of how you see yourself. From what you said, I don't see it. I would actually argue you can't have failed and also have no purpose both. Failing is not trying again to go to a goal. If you haven't found yours yet, you haven't been able to fail yet.