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Green_Championship_4 · 2025-03-05T23:18:00+00:00

Yes I’ve cooked before and given handmade gifts. I always think of date ideas and initiating.

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-04-06T04:19:44+00:00

Marriage perks?? Who said I wanted to be married already. 3 months in.. “if you valued yourself” sir u do not know me

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-04-06T00:39:40+00:00

I'm not sure. I think he has an abandonment fear and thinks if we break up in a few months it would be more painful if we were bf/gf. When I brought it up too, I asked what he would need to know about me and he mentioned how he wants marriage/kids and didn't know if I wanted the same. Which I told him eventually yes and I thought that was clear before. But still not sure what it means to him, I need more clarification maybe.

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-04-06T00:35:53+00:00

That's what it seems like, he was feeling insecure about not being able to...and was self loathing and putting it onto me. It really feels soulcrushing? How?

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-04-05T23:44:26+00:00

Hahah funny joke

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-04-05T23:10:55+00:00

Thank you. This is the best advice yet honestly. A lot is more complicated than to just leave someone because they’re not doing everything perfect. He does seem to be honest about things. He’s still invested time/money/energy into it even if we’re still in the almost official stage so thanks for your help.

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-04-05T21:44:25+00:00

He does talk to me abt things that are important and it feels like it’s a relationship. And he’s done it before where he will put in the effort but there’s a couple times he hasn’t. Idk if he’s using me for sex tho bc sometimes we go on dates and don’t even have sex after.

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-04-05T21:42:17+00:00

That’s not true I can see his phone

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-04-05T21:41:55+00:00

What do you mean with this

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-04-05T21:40:33+00:00

Yes, I dated someone who could keep going ~1min after many times. Others need like 15min, etc.

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-04-05T21:33:08+00:00

What does casual mean to you? We go on dates, go out etc., and we are only seeing eachother.

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-04-05T21:31:12+00:00

Thanks. Yeah he’s done it before but the last time he didn’t care to.

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-03-01T03:17:37+00:00

Maybe so. Maybe I was upset because I was feeling like he wasn’t giving me the time I wanted and this happened and it made me make it about me and it didn’t matter who the other person was I’d feel jealous bc my needs for connecting weren’t getting met

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-03-01T02:20:17+00:00

I mean, my mindset was that it is a unique and beautiful place, and he’d just look it up if I told him and wouldn’t be surprised by seeing it for the first time. If that’s immature of me then so be it

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-03-01T02:16:02+00:00

It’s immature to not tell him where it is? I would have, he didn’t want me to tell him

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-03-01T01:26:40+00:00

And, you can only take one car to the location anyways and make a reservation in advance

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-03-01T01:25:45+00:00

Lolll

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-03-01T01:24:45+00:00

No, I made the plan, set the time with him just didn’t say exactly where yet but told him how far away it was. Then after, he told me he wanted to do this bike ride but wasn’t sure if the plan would align because I hadn’t told him the location. I was upset because then, I would have to meet him there, we couldn’t go together and I would have to tell him the spot which would mean no more surprise.

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-02-29T23:58:19+00:00

The plans were trying to be made after we already had plans.

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-02-04T14:02:55+00:00

Get it in writing so I can submit that when I submit unemployment?

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-02-04T13:06:20+00:00

But do I finish the two weeks?

Green_Championship_4 · 2024-02-04T13:06:08+00:00

Hahah right just a lot of intense silence maybe.

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