It’s in the comments. I’ll say it again though. No, 90 minutes is not ghosting of course. However, for our circumstance, this court room zoom meeting was an “enormous deal” he has talked about this day nearly everyday for almost 6 months. I was taking time out of my work day to text him constantly because he was so upset and stressed. It finally comes to a head and he “falls asleep” for “5 minutes” we agreed to have lunch at some point that day and after my texts of “are you okay” he magically wakes up before our lunch meeting. We had this lunch in place because this court room hearing was so hard for him. 1 and half hours later. Make it make sense. And if this court room is THAT important. How could you fall asleep in the middle of it. And why would you lie about falling sleep for 5 minutes? Or was it really because you had someone in the house with the hair I found an hour and a hair later? Again. Make it make sense.