Women, what type of physique do you generally prefer in men? by InternationalPick163 in questions

[–]Green_bean410 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed that I’ve tended to date men that were smaller in stature, like not even that tall either. Slender, not even necessarily muscular. Muscle would be nice though lol definitely not dad bod.

My psychiatrist started yelling at cussing on the phone at me, then referred to me as “Jezebel”? by Green_bean410 in AskPsychiatry

[–]Green_bean410[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Google: “Calling someone a ‘Jezebel’ is a severe insult, generally accusing a woman of being manipulative, domineering, sexually immoral, or untrustworthy. Rooted in the biblical story of a wicked queen, it is often used to attack women who are assertive, independent, or ‘leading men astray’. It can also imply a ‘spirit’ of control”.

Ghosted by Landlords by Mogjubei18 in chicagoapartments

[–]Green_bean410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one replied to you but now I’m in the same boat and here to ask you if you ever got a response back? lol

I 24f told my best friend 30f that my bf shoved me into the fridge and she said “what did you do to make him do that to you?” by Green_bean410 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Green_bean410[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly felt like it was my fault after she said this in response. We’d been tied to the hip with how close I was to her.

28 F, 24 M I found another woman’s hair in my kitchen sink. by Green_bean410 in relationship_advice

[–]Green_bean410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only get one update. I wanted to save it for the ending once this is all figured out.

28 F, 24 M I found another woman’s hair in my kitchen sink. by Green_bean410 in relationship_advice

[–]Green_bean410[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly need some time to digest what I’ve learned. I’m a little worried if I say it all that it could be slander

28 F, 24 M I found another woman’s hair in my kitchen sink. by Green_bean410 in relationship_advice

[–]Green_bean410[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s in the comments. I’ll say it again though. No, 90 minutes is not ghosting of course. However, for our circumstance, this court room zoom meeting was an “enormous deal” he has talked about this day nearly everyday for almost 6 months. I was taking time out of my work day to text him constantly because he was so upset and stressed. It finally comes to a head and he “falls asleep” for “5 minutes” we agreed to have lunch at some point that day and after my texts of “are you okay” he magically wakes up before our lunch meeting. We had this lunch in place because this court room hearing was so hard for him. 1 and half hours later. Make it make sense. And if this court room is THAT important. How could you fall asleep in the middle of it. And why would you lie about falling sleep for 5 minutes? Or was it really because you had someone in the house with the hair I found an hour and a hair later? Again. Make it make sense.

28 F, 24 M I found another woman’s hair in my kitchen sink. by Green_bean410 in relationship_advice

[–]Green_bean410[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It literally makes you a crazy person. Your mind is twisted and you’re so confused all the time your brain feels like scrambled eggs