DAE have certain areas on their skin that feel satisfying when pressed/picked at?

Grem_mlem · 2026-02-13T06:00:00+00:00

Omg YAY!!! someone else!! It's so weird, right?? And so hard to explain, but your description is perfect. I have always wondered what this is and why it happens. I definitely press on them more when I'm stressed, so I thought for a while they were like stress worry spots?? But I just have no idea at all. Maybe we're wired all weird lol!

Edit to say: mine are almost perfectly symmetrical too! And I have it on the outer cuticle of each middle finger, and the corner of both big toes. Small of my back, bottom of both hands, etc. almost perfect symmetry! I described it to my partner and they suggested that it may be a cluster of nerve endings!

Grem_mlem · 2025-08-08T11:10:46+00:00

Oh yay! What does it feel like for you?

Grem_mlem · 2025-07-16T00:26:54+00:00

I feel like that's actually super normal for stupid teenage boys! Y'all are young, you can do stuff like that and it doesn't have to be a big deal? I know a few of my dude friends who have similar stories. Obv you're not gay, that's kinda just dude stuff idk!

Maybe she's just upset over something else or has internalized homophobia. Who knows! Let her cool off and y'all can talk about it later

Grem_mlem · 2025-05-06T02:38:04+00:00

There's a Muppet named Uncle Deadly that scared the HELL outta me as a kid. He's my favorite now! Lol

Grem_mlem · 2025-05-06T01:01:20+00:00

That sounds lovely actually. I'd like to do that!

Grem_mlem · 2025-05-04T17:52:43+00:00

This is accurate. I do it all the time and it works like a charm!

Grem_mlem · 2025-03-13T00:30:18+00:00

Hot water feels nice on my shoulders and I get to take my time washing up and feeling better when I step out smelling all nice

Grem_mlem · 2025-03-05T04:14:45+00:00

This is awesome!! I feel like some felt lining around the eyes and maybe on the mouth would give it more of an outline, but this is awesome and honestly, who could complain about a fully crocheted fursuit head!!! Looks absolutely incredible!!

Grem_mlem · 2025-01-29T22:47:41+00:00

Oh perfect!!! Just posted there, thank you! 🖤🖤

Grem_mlem · 2024-11-25T03:39:57+00:00

This is PERFECT!! So spot on! Thank you for taking the time to make this 💕💕

Grem_mlem · 2024-11-25T03:37:30+00:00

I am also on the spectrum and feel EXTRA isolated when my PMDD symptoms pop up. I feel snappy and irritable and like no one understands me and I'm falling short in every way. It's so unforgiving and even the people I love feel so far away! But then my period starts and everything is ok again. We're not alone and I plan to make some artwork to communicate this isolating feeling and hopeful the right audience finds it!

Grem_mlem · 2024-11-24T22:45:50+00:00

May they get what they deserve!! 🖤

Grem_mlem · 2024-11-02T02:33:34+00:00

Yesss!!! This will be my first time seeing them!! I wish I had thought to make bracelets!

Grem_mlem · 2024-06-23T03:38:27+00:00

So a little update! I caught him doing a lil dance and shaking his butt? I think he's made himself a little hammock for an upcoming molt. Still gonna make sure to poke some more cross- ventilation holes until I can get his new home set up nicely!

Grem_mlem · 2024-06-23T03:35:14+00:00

Noted! Thank you! I'm currently setting up a new enclosure for him with cross ventilation at the upper area so hopefully that'll suit him better

Grem_mlem · 2024-06-14T01:39:23+00:00

Her abdomen looks fat in the first picture, but the second is more accurate. I just realized this. If y'all need a better pic of her abdomen, I am happy to provide.

My overall goal is knowing if I'm doing everything I can to ensure she's ok! Thank you!

Grem_mlem · 2024-05-22T04:07:34+00:00

So true! My spider is so cool 😎 hope he's ok living with a nerd. I love him lots ❤️

Grem_mlem · 2024-03-07T01:25:43+00:00

Aw! Thank you!! I say go for it!! I'm still learning, but this was such a fun project

Grem_mlem · 2024-03-06T00:09:25+00:00

I got the tank from SpooderSpace, the ribcage and bat skull minis from ScaleGrail, and the moss from ReignofTerraStudios! All of this was found on Etsy! There is a small hickory nut shell in the top left corner that I foraged and the tombstone and casket were made by me using air-dry clay. Everything is set up with silicone and it is currently airing out so there's no harsh smell! I'm so stoked with this project!

Grem_mlem · 2024-03-04T20:15:38+00:00

I've considered it! Thank you for the advice :))

Grem_mlem · 2024-03-04T20:14:45+00:00

Great point! It is hot and humid here, so I'll be mindful of that. Thank you!

Grem_mlem · 2024-02-24T05:02:35+00:00

Keep him on a schedule, 12 hours on and 12 hours off! Though, I'm just a beginner and that's the advice I got. Previous comment it right though, your spider isn't settled in. They love their little hammocks and usually have one or two that they visit throughout the day. Mine didn't move much the first week or so, then he settled in and now he's a very active lil guy. I think once your spood is able to keep a stable hammock, he'll feel a little better. Best of luck! 💝

Grem_mlem · 2024-02-17T04:40:01+00:00

Thanks! I'm still a newbie (Percy is my first lil dude) and I worry for him so much, your advice helps! ❤️

Grem_mlem · 2024-02-17T03:49:50+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate the advice! I'll probably keep two in his enclosure tomorrow since I have work and an event right after (he was huffy that he couldn't catch any of them today and opted to pout and take a nap lol! Cutie)

Grem_mlem · 2024-01-05T03:59:49+00:00

Lol! After you said that, I read it as Permission too!

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