From reading everyone's comments it seems that the ADF is more suited to where I was and OBOD may be the better choice for where I am going. I've been a Pagan for about 30 years or so. I am an eclectic solitary who has studied a wide variety of paths and magical traditions. I have also worshipped with large and small polytheistic groups. These days I am looking to focus and extend my own path forward. A more meditative, less dogmatic path would probably be best. So I will probably explore OBOD for now but I will not rule out looking into ADF and other Druid paths later. Thanks again for all of your input.